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Highly Recommended Book ... Alan Fruzzetti. PhD co-founder of the NEA-BPD Family Connections program adapts DBT tools for use by couples. Learn how to analyze conflict "triggers" and then identify more constructive ways to handle them. Also learn to tackle resentment -- a mental process in which we repeatedly relive painful things in ways that affect us mentally, emotionally, physiologically and spiritually.
 
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Can a person have Asperger's Syndrome + BPD?
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December 03, 2010, 08:55:29 PM
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Does your BPD person bait & torment you like a game?
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January 17, 2011, 09:37:15 PM
by teeny
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How Important is Being Validated
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September 24, 2010, 10:01:52 AM
by Sharonon
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This time H backed up D21 & D21 is going off
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February 07, 2011, 07:39:10 AM
by Sharonon
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Does your BPD partner have recurrent themes that trigger him or her?
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January 20, 2011, 07:35:52 PM
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Do we "pre-validate"===validate even before introducing a subject?
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shatra
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July 20, 2011, 06:04:41 PM
by Steph
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Upset at therapy/support group
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shatra
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February 13, 2013, 08:49:55 AM
by Randi Kreger
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Validation problems
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shatra
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January 24, 2012, 07:11:42 PM
by shatra
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Validation or SET for this?
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shatra
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April 28, 2011, 05:24:30 AM
by Cherokeeflower
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How the pwBP reacts to being pushed away
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shatra
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June 13, 2012, 11:01:14 PM
by shatra
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BP gives cards to others, not to me
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shatra
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May 09, 2011, 08:22:12 PM
by shatra
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Consequences when I forgot to validate
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shatra
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October 04, 2011, 08:30:29 PM
by 1bravegirl
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I ask for more, and in response he doubts the relationship
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January 31, 2012, 08:45:54 PM
by Happiest
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pwBP is asking for help coping with upcoming loss
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shatra
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November 05, 2011, 05:59:04 PM
by Steph
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He says "Therapy doesn't help. No progress, I still feel upset"
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shatra
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June 17, 2012, 02:22:17 PM
by shatra
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pwBP can express grief over losing objects, but not close loved ones
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April 16, 2012, 11:56:27 AM
by Steph
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pwBP is "divorcing" his therapist
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shatra
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August 06, 2012, 09:23:55 PM
by shatra
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I complained and now he feels "abandoned"
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December 28, 2011, 12:47:23 AM
by Surnia
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I validated his criticism of support groups
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shatra
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February 23, 2012, 07:35:18 PM
by shatra
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pwBP negative re:my new job
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September 08, 2011, 12:31:38 PM
by Auspicious
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TV on all the time to avoid intimacy?
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shatra
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August 03, 2011, 11:57:20 AM
by Aurylian
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What do you "get out of" marriage?
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March 27, 2013, 08:50:51 AM
by arabella
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His son is moving back home with the pwBP
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February 25, 2012, 01:44:58 PM
by Steph
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Males vs. Females---expressing feelings
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December 02, 2011, 05:02:19 PM
by shatra
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Do they actually love?
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December 02, 2011, 12:10:37 PM
by Lumpy_
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His affection is inconsistent
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May 24, 2011, 08:50:56 PM
by shatra
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BP won't go to friends' homes---they must go to BP?
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shatra
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March 17, 2011, 08:56:02 PM
by xxostedd
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overly friendly
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August 27, 2011, 11:11:17 AM
by shatra
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Spoke up to pwBP
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April 10, 2011, 01:00:43 PM
by shatra
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pwBP and therapist flirting with each other
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May 29, 2012, 06:11:09 PM
by jc2
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Setting limits and they feel attacked
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shatra
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March 11, 2012, 06:19:35 PM
by shatra
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BPD invading boundaries re:space and office furniture
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May 27, 2012, 01:06:49 PM
by shatra
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How to encourage them to talk slowly and avoid tangents
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June 04, 2011, 01:50:29 PM
by shatra
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BPD and Christmas gifts
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December 26, 2011, 05:52:24 PM
by shatra
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Pushed away again
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January 10, 2012, 06:37:58 PM
by shatra
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I validate & then he disputes the validation?
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June 04, 2011, 02:12:49 PM
by shatra
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Asking for his help even if I don't need it
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shatra
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January 01, 2013, 05:23:35 PM
by 123Phoebe
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Hard to validate when he hurts me directly
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February 22, 2011, 12:07:50 PM
by shatra
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Validating his negative self-statements?
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June 17, 2011, 07:26:36 PM
by Steph
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How to focus rationally "at the moment of crisis"
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February 28, 2012, 07:32:59 AM
by united for now
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