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What do you "get out of" marriage?
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shatra
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March 27, 2013, 08:50:51 AM
by arabella
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I ask for more, and in response he doubts the relationship
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shatra
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January 31, 2012, 08:45:54 PM
by Happiest
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pwBP is asking for help coping with upcoming loss
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shatra
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November 05, 2011, 05:59:04 PM
by Steph
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I complained and now he feels "abandoned"
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shatra
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December 28, 2011, 12:47:23 AM
by Surnia
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Setting limits and they feel attacked
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shatra
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March 11, 2012, 06:19:35 PM
by shatra
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pwBP negative re:my new job
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shatra
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September 08, 2011, 12:31:38 PM
by Auspicious
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pwBP and therapist flirting with each other
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shatra
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May 29, 2012, 06:11:09 PM
by jc2
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TV on all the time to avoid intimacy?
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shatra
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August 03, 2011, 11:57:20 AM
by Aurylian
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His son is moving back home with the pwBP
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shatra
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February 25, 2012, 01:44:58 PM
by Steph
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BPD invading boundaries re:space and office furniture
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shatra
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May 27, 2012, 01:06:49 PM
by shatra
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Asking for his help even if I don't need it
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shatra
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January 01, 2013, 05:23:35 PM
by 123Phoebe
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Males vs. Females---expressing feelings
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shatra
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December 02, 2011, 05:02:19 PM
by shatra
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Do they actually love?
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shatra
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December 02, 2011, 12:10:37 PM
by Lumpy_
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His affection is inconsistent
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shatra
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May 24, 2011, 08:50:56 PM
by shatra
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BP won't go to friends' homes---they must go to BP?
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shatra
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March 17, 2011, 08:56:02 PM
by xxostedd
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overly friendly
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shatra
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August 27, 2011, 11:11:17 AM
by shatra
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Spoke up to pwBP
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shatra
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April 10, 2011, 01:00:43 PM
by shatra
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How to focus rationally "at the moment of crisis"
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shatra
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February 28, 2012, 07:32:59 AM
by united for now
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How to encourage them to talk slowly and avoid tangents
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June 04, 2011, 01:50:29 PM
by shatra
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BPD and Christmas gifts
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December 26, 2011, 05:52:24 PM
by shatra
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Pushed away again
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shatra
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January 10, 2012, 06:37:58 PM
by shatra
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I validate & then he disputes the validation?
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June 04, 2011, 02:12:49 PM
by shatra
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Afraid I might lash out verbally at him---how to avoid this?
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March 19, 2012, 07:52:24 AM
by CodependentHusband
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Hard to validate when he hurts me directly
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February 22, 2011, 12:07:50 PM
by shatra
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Validating his negative self-statements?
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June 17, 2011, 07:26:36 PM
by Steph
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Feeling uncomfortable sharing positive OR negative things with him
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shatra
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January 20, 2013, 07:42:04 PM
by Chosen
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I get interrupted when trying to validate
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shatra
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June 20, 2011, 06:08:35 PM
by united for now
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He likes to blast music---I like it quiet---boundaries?
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September 07, 2011, 10:00:11 PM
by shatra
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How to politely ask them to talk less?
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shatra
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June 10, 2011, 09:33:34 PM
by shatra
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Friend with pwBPD is unsympathetic---hanging up on me
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shatra
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April 25, 2013, 11:22:19 PM
by Grey Kitty
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Therapist is "rejecting" the pwBP
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shatra
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July 07, 2012, 07:56:20 AM
by united for now
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Using High Confllict Couple techniques on my own?
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shatra
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September 13, 2011, 10:32:28 PM
by qcarolr
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Validating feeling as ok, yet their intensity or action is not ok?
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March 22, 2011, 12:28:04 PM
by shatra
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Prodded to be "perfect" by pwBP
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shatra
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January 29, 2012, 05:23:56 PM
by SmileAnyway
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BP isolates---fears his depression will rub off on me
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shatra
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March 24, 2011, 04:48:38 PM
by shatra
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how can i get him to let go of an issue?
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May 18, 2011, 03:18:01 PM
by PainOfAge
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Well... she wins
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April 17, 2013, 11:40:41 AM
by cristina2323
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Therapists hiding diagnosis?
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February 20, 2012, 09:57:30 AM
by sheepdog
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confused and scared
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November 16, 2011, 07:07:41 PM
by newworld
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Let's talk about sex...
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June 23, 2012, 10:21:49 AM
by sheepdog
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