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Overwhelmed with pain Siamese Rescue 0 75 Last post June 17, 2016, 01:28:29 PM
by Siamese Rescue
Avoiding circular arguments Everglow 4 444 Last post June 16, 2016, 10:53:14 PM
by Naughty Nibbler
So Called "Changes" dacoming 5 205 Last post June 16, 2016, 08:01:23 PM
by waverider
dysregulated parenting and trying to step in Everglow 0 87 Last post June 15, 2016, 10:09:57 PM
by Everglow
I just found I have probably partner with BPD gommario 4 198 Last post June 15, 2016, 08:41:53 PM
by Turkish
Need help asap « 1 2  All » Daph 10 406 Last post June 15, 2016, 07:39:42 PM
by flourdust
Mental abuse Changed 7 274 Last post June 15, 2016, 05:30:57 PM
by Naughty Nibbler
Hi « 1 2  All » stilinchrist 14 392 Last post June 14, 2016, 04:45:37 PM
by stilinchrist
Ten Year Triangle Siamese Rescue 5 194 Last post June 14, 2016, 08:09:33 AM
by Siamese Rescue
Attempting to Visit Family quixote888 2 119 Last post June 14, 2016, 04:45:28 AM
by quixote888
Me again Raspberry 6 183 Last post June 14, 2016, 01:57:41 AM
by Raspberry
Just now realizing I'm being Gaslighted Daph 7 381 Last post June 13, 2016, 05:50:41 PM
by waverider
how to disengage from a "hater" BPD spouse kimber 1 164 Last post June 13, 2016, 07:10:57 AM
by waverider
Medication Issue « 1 2 3 4 5  All » Akita 42 989 Last post June 12, 2016, 10:08:42 PM
by Akita
X with BPD wants to be friends... « 1 2  All » wicati67 18 682 Last post June 12, 2016, 06:22:18 PM
by wicati67
Imagination foggydew 4 183 Last post June 11, 2016, 11:55:15 AM
by foggydew
Kids suffering « 1 2 3  All » earlgrey 23 717 Last post June 11, 2016, 06:25:24 AM
by C.Stein
Don't get it twisted Bpdsupporter 5 190 Last post June 10, 2016, 09:36:10 PM
by Bpdsupporter
My 1 1/2 Year Circus : cue Circus Music DotinOz 1 133 Last post June 09, 2016, 08:14:14 PM
by Akita
BPD 'spouse' is expressing rage to our 3 yr old son over feeling rejected ACEFAM 1 103 Last post June 09, 2016, 12:30:44 PM
by livednlearned
taking a break vs. a break up kc sunshine 1 124 Last post June 08, 2016, 09:42:08 AM
by Curiously1
Need someone to talk to The determined 1 4 187 Last post June 08, 2016, 06:20:28 AM
by C.Stein
Unplanned Pregnancy "Trap" bern4606 6 391 Last post June 08, 2016, 12:03:17 AM
by gotbushels
What do I need to do? Ive been silent for three years. Trygvasson 4 303 Last post June 07, 2016, 11:42:33 PM
by gotbushels
Tired and devalued foggydew 8 346 Last post June 07, 2016, 08:05:56 PM
by foggydew
Coping strategies for demands and criticisms? JWstillhoping 7 286 Last post June 07, 2016, 05:41:47 PM
by waverider
My pw/BPD dropped the mic and this time I'm leaving it on the floor Phenomenal Woman 1 154 Last post June 07, 2016, 05:08:38 PM
by once removed
Newbie. Not sure how this works. But here's my deal OldDude 1 153 Last post June 07, 2016, 05:01:47 PM
by once removed
Is this Typical of BPD? DotinOz 3 191 Last post June 07, 2016, 04:57:12 PM
by isilme
Can't make heads or tails of this and need help. w9isgrate 4 176 Last post June 07, 2016, 02:47:33 PM
by w9isgrate
First post flavadave037 3 140 Last post June 07, 2016, 01:20:12 PM
by ColdEthyl
How do you do Radical Acceptance? ArleighBurke 8 264 Last post June 07, 2016, 10:06:41 AM
by tryingsome
4th time in the same relationship... And imploding. Even though I know it's BPD Michael1924 2 163 Last post June 07, 2016, 10:04:18 AM
by Mutt
Feeling alone and looking for support « 1 2  All » Hopeful07 14 378 Last post June 06, 2016, 10:40:37 PM
by Grey Kitty
The secret is out Bpdsupporter 2 232 Last post June 06, 2016, 10:13:50 PM
by Bpdsupporter
Disspointment soulmate 3 144 Last post June 06, 2016, 08:39:37 PM
by Phenomenal Woman
The trap of over analysis waverider 7 265 Last post June 06, 2016, 06:30:29 PM
by waverider
New to BPD dont want to believe it but she must be BPD? Bpdruinmylife 4 273 Last post June 06, 2016, 05:36:38 PM
by Bpdruinmylife
Bf admitted to hospital :( Raspberry 2 136 Last post June 06, 2016, 05:35:29 PM
by Raspberry
Supplements and Bpd Bpdsupporter 3 235 Last post June 04, 2016, 06:48:23 PM
by waverider
Live your life Quit expecting the BPD to like it, approve of it, or support it « 1 2 3 4 5  All » Moselle 43 2086 Last post June 04, 2016, 08:34:45 AM
by Daisy23
Trying one last time and want to sort old issues « 1 2 3 4  All » confusedbloke 30 703 Last post June 03, 2016, 04:05:58 PM
by confusedbloke
S and uBPDH will talk tomorrow after 4 months without contact « 1 2  All » Dizzy Princess 11 360 Last post June 03, 2016, 11:26:20 AM
by Dizzy Princess
BPD Gone? Cole 5 296 Last post June 03, 2016, 10:36:35 AM
by Cole
What to do for me? atomic popsicles 7 308 Last post June 03, 2016, 12:57:25 AM
by foggydew
Therapist Thurles 1 134 Last post June 02, 2016, 12:06:09 AM
by Turkish
blurred reality adaw 3 206 Last post June 01, 2016, 08:11:58 PM
by adaw
Just found out my husband has BPD Lisa11 2 145 Last post June 01, 2016, 05:48:56 PM
by livednlearned
Not sure where to start...but taking breathes omia73 1 115 Last post June 01, 2016, 03:26:24 PM
by Mutt
My wife thinks being dead is better than separated ArleighBurke 5 230 Last post June 01, 2016, 09:13:38 AM
by Wrongturn1
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