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Codependency and Codependent Relationships
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My GF wants help. How can I help? jrharvey 9 266 Last post July 29, 2016, 08:19:02 PM
by Grey Kitty
Introduction « 1 2  All » Lost_Kayaker 12 260 Last post July 29, 2016, 03:38:23 PM
by motherhen
Progress « 1 2 3  All » jrharvey 25 563 Last post July 29, 2016, 02:04:54 PM
by samanthal
Sister doesn't get radical acceptance... conflict of personalities with wife guitarguy09 2 154 Last post July 29, 2016, 11:11:55 AM
by C.Stein
Using empathy and mutual understandings - rather than boundary enforcement « 1 2 3 4  All » needbpdhelp 38 2855 Last post July 28, 2016, 11:36:31 PM
by Lilyroze
I've been in a long abusive situation Wrath 5 268 Last post July 28, 2016, 07:21:32 PM
by livednlearned
Trying to save marriage MMarie 2 140 Last post July 28, 2016, 05:15:35 PM
by livednlearned
Here we go again... BowlOfPetunias 3 125 Last post July 28, 2016, 03:49:03 PM
by Meili
Good therapist in Philly area? joshbjoshb 1 97 Last post July 27, 2016, 11:19:19 PM
by Determined1
sorry, just have to post again..help foggydew 3 131 Last post July 27, 2016, 08:51:44 PM
by foggydew
Article about the characteristics of healthy relationships Pingo 2 1659 Last post July 27, 2016, 04:26:19 PM
by Pingo
Running away Worriedlady 1 122 Last post July 27, 2016, 01:24:22 PM
by Meili
Recently diagnosed Lovetypemoose 1 126 Last post July 26, 2016, 05:35:33 PM
by Meili
Going out of town jrharvey 5 159 Last post July 26, 2016, 02:34:27 PM
by Meili
Does my wife (suspected BPD) know she got BPD? Trygvasson 1 146 Last post July 26, 2016, 10:22:41 AM
by Meili
In sickness and in health Isaih 9 397 Last post July 26, 2016, 12:57:00 AM
by Isaih
Learning of BP and wanting to tell spouse Infernoland 3 196 Last post July 25, 2016, 08:13:17 PM
by Meili
She's numb blueeyes567 1 126 Last post July 25, 2016, 04:09:10 PM
by Meili
Partner awaiting DBT, what to do in meantime? Woods77 2 128 Last post July 25, 2016, 03:36:56 PM
by NotThatGuy
leaving the man i love? lara0102 1 102 Last post July 25, 2016, 02:04:49 PM
by Meili
Marriage Counseling - Does it Work? « 1 2  All » dealingwithit 10 1137 Last post July 25, 2016, 09:04:24 AM
by Skip
I'm sabotaging my relationship again Nola68 3 153 Last post July 25, 2016, 02:07:33 AM
by Hlinthewiking
Loosing myself: indecisive « 1 2 ... 5 6  All » Hlinthewiking 50 942 Last post July 24, 2016, 01:50:52 PM
by Hlinthewiking
Crying Gampopa21 2 150 Last post July 24, 2016, 01:47:40 PM
by an0ught
BPD bf sleeps on his ex wifes couch to spend more time with troubled kids pizzamargarita 1 92 Last post July 24, 2016, 01:29:27 PM
by Dutched
I need help... « 1 2  All » Pine Knoll 17 444 Last post July 23, 2016, 02:29:16 AM
by zonnebloem
Stuck in endless 'grey area', anyone else? Zinnia21 9 339 Last post July 22, 2016, 06:57:22 PM
by lar, laris
Girlfriend (would-be fiancee?) just diagnosed with BPD Fritz_27 2 122 Last post July 22, 2016, 06:20:09 PM
by NotThatGuy
Respect and trust « 1 2  All » NotThatGuy 11 373 Last post July 22, 2016, 09:37:40 AM
by NotThatGuy
For a moment, I genuinely forgot that my boyfriend is a dxBPD misuniadziubek 3 187 Last post July 22, 2016, 09:16:44 AM
by joshbjoshb
How do I help her not be overwhelmed with cleaning ArleighBurke 5 171 Last post July 22, 2016, 08:49:53 AM
by waverider
How can I help my body husbAnd who wants everyone to believe I am controlling Marrosa 1 99 Last post July 22, 2016, 08:26:54 AM
by BestVersionOfMe
In a new relationship with BPD partner moneypenny 4 213 Last post July 20, 2016, 01:52:45 PM
by bunny4523
New Parasite Host? BestVersionOfMe 5 182 Last post July 20, 2016, 10:12:07 AM
by Turkish
Sabotaging the relationship Narkiss 4 267 Last post July 18, 2016, 11:46:30 PM
by schwing
Anybody Else Deal With This? dacoming 2 160 Last post July 18, 2016, 04:07:25 PM
by dacoming
BPD behavior coming back BowlOfPetunias 2 130 Last post July 18, 2016, 02:14:31 PM
by NotThatGuy
Don't want to go home. And that's the bottomline RichButPoor 2 183 Last post July 18, 2016, 02:12:22 PM
by schwing
She wants unconditional love ArleighBurke 5 263 Last post July 17, 2016, 07:49:37 PM
by Lilyroze
Does a third party being involved tend to trigger you more Baulwin 2 172 Last post July 17, 2016, 01:46:15 PM
by Skip
my wife is in denial Astolat 1 147 Last post July 17, 2016, 01:14:18 PM
by Skip
Separation anxiety as a non when things are going well prettyflowers 1 145 Last post July 17, 2016, 11:33:08 AM
by MaybeSo
Is this common? « 1 2  All » Hopeful07 10 415 Last post July 16, 2016, 12:56:15 AM
by waverider
Choosing to Stay "In Sickness and in Health" And the price you pay for it. Lighthouse777 3 183 Last post July 15, 2016, 05:19:23 PM
by NotThatGuy
Breaking out of bad spirals globalnomad 1 154 Last post July 15, 2016, 03:20:05 PM
by livednlearned
At the end of my rope and it's only been two months Frustrated6747 2 174 Last post July 15, 2016, 08:23:53 AM
by UnforgivenII
living with a BPD for 9 years, not all bad, current rages destroying my soul kalina 8 291 Last post July 15, 2016, 01:14:53 AM
by kalina
Hi :-) I need your help. Thanks in advance UnforgivenII 6 319 Last post July 14, 2016, 08:45:04 PM
by Riverrat
How did you help your BPD partner realize that they have BPD? joshbjoshb 4 185 Last post July 13, 2016, 02:45:48 PM
by Hlinthewiking
How do you know if your BPD GF really loves you? True Grenadine 2 235 Last post July 13, 2016, 01:29:22 PM
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