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Still Figuring This Out colorfysunshine 1 82 Last post September 02, 2016, 08:43:27 AM
by livednlearned
Marriage and Control with a BPD Spouse « 1 2 3  All » Cole 22 557 Last post September 02, 2016, 07:17:59 AM
by teapay
My boyfriend has BPD and refuses help k-a-r 5 196 Last post September 01, 2016, 07:17:06 PM
by livednlearned
Don't JADE or invalidate. Just don't. « 1 2  All » flowerpath 13 463 Last post September 01, 2016, 01:22:05 PM
by Meili
How to get past the mean things they say? « 1 2 3  All » CrazyChuck 26 893 Last post September 01, 2016, 12:18:20 PM
by livednlearned
Tips for dealing with resentment IsSheBpdHelp 3 148 Last post September 01, 2016, 10:39:26 AM
by livednlearned
Compulsive lying Amber2016 3 253 Last post September 01, 2016, 09:06:02 AM
by livednlearned
Parenting Inconsistentcies BowlOfPetunias 2 100 Last post September 01, 2016, 08:43:45 AM
by livednlearned
Struggling to get past the past « 1 2  All » Jessica84 16 361 Last post September 01, 2016, 07:22:19 AM
by livednlearned
Coping with ill health and separation Derek1690 6 162 Last post September 01, 2016, 07:14:55 AM
by livednlearned
Pls someone tell me there BPD does this? « 1 2 3 4 5  All » Lou12 40 1774 Last post September 01, 2016, 02:33:07 AM
by k-a-r
How to handle the bad days Oncebitten 8 236 Last post August 31, 2016, 05:55:50 PM
by Tea Fish
My son is a victim of abuse, both emotional and physical. Rykestrasse 2 77 Last post August 31, 2016, 04:22:11 PM
by Skip
New to this and skeptical cc22 3 182 Last post August 31, 2016, 11:48:44 AM
by isilme
BPD and birth control? MikeCL 2 177 Last post August 31, 2016, 11:37:19 AM
by isilme
How do I handle situation with uBPDbf (giving me ST) when he reaches out? lovecanbehard 9 189 Last post August 31, 2016, 11:24:51 AM
by Jessica84
Wife in a Mexican anexo Edgecumbe 2 187 Last post August 31, 2016, 10:16:56 AM
by livednlearned
Dramatic mood swings « 1 2  All » Cmjo 14 361 Last post August 30, 2016, 09:42:27 PM
by Cmjo
Introduction Guillaume620 3 154 Last post August 30, 2016, 01:53:17 PM
by livednlearned
My story swe_bpd 7 298 Last post August 30, 2016, 10:55:59 AM
by livednlearned
If your wife is miserable in a situation, would you try to change it? joshbjoshb 7 253 Last post August 30, 2016, 10:43:25 AM
by livednlearned
Hello darkstar13311 3 117 Last post August 30, 2016, 10:28:56 AM
by livednlearned
I can use some reflective input « 1 2  All » waitingwife 10 293 Last post August 29, 2016, 04:27:05 PM
by waitingwife
MOVED: things she do once removed 0 62 Last post August 29, 2016, 10:48:38 AM
by once removed
Life is so much easier when I'm not being idealized or devalued SummerStorm 3 141 Last post August 28, 2016, 09:58:50 AM
by Notwendy
Her inability to make and keep plans drives me crazy SummerStorm 4 216 Last post August 27, 2016, 08:51:29 PM
by SummerStorm
Not Again townhouse 9 318 Last post August 27, 2016, 07:15:40 PM
by Notwendy
The loneliness « 1 2  All » foodlover 13 384 Last post August 26, 2016, 03:28:18 PM
by Oncebitten
In relationship with BPD partner « 1 2  All » j9 17 372 Last post August 26, 2016, 01:52:58 PM
by Mutt
Birthday difficulties pls 7 223 Last post August 25, 2016, 11:25:04 AM
by isilme
Thoughts...or questions I probably already know the answer to... Stripey77 6 200 Last post August 25, 2016, 03:21:38 AM
by Stripey77
The questions « 1 2 3  All » jrharvey 28 585 Last post August 24, 2016, 09:56:05 PM
by motherhen
One positive acknowledgement BowlOfPetunias 6 214 Last post August 24, 2016, 06:41:05 AM
by Notwendy
My first post here CGM 3 124 Last post August 23, 2016, 04:41:56 PM
by Meili
What does he need to hear from me at this point? (Pt 2) « 1 2 3  All » Jessica84 27 701 Last post August 22, 2016, 09:54:38 PM
by lar, laris
"get help" email martillo 4 209 Last post August 22, 2016, 09:19:32 PM
by Woolspinner2000
In one ear... BowlOfPetunias 4 172 Last post August 22, 2016, 08:28:13 PM
by ArleighBurke
Did I handle this well? FeelingBitter 4 203 Last post August 22, 2016, 06:55:43 PM
by FeelingBitter
Introduction pls 4 171 Last post August 22, 2016, 02:43:39 PM
by VitaminC
MOVED: need advice once removed 0 54 Last post August 22, 2016, 12:12:59 PM
by once removed
Tired of validation (I exploded) « 1 2  All » CrazyChuck 19 643 Last post August 21, 2016, 03:02:56 PM
by waverider
I am dating a woman with BPD and would appreciate the insight of others autonomyfull 9 284 Last post August 21, 2016, 02:21:46 PM
by waverider
Alcoholism -SET to address? Please help Everglow 3 136 Last post August 19, 2016, 05:18:26 PM
by waverider
it's my birthday « 1 2  All » claryhunter 10 372 Last post August 19, 2016, 01:53:19 PM
by Jessica84
Facebook obsession? « 1 2  All » Jessica84 11 425 Last post August 19, 2016, 01:26:43 PM
by Jessica84
I think my boyfriend has BPD « 1 2  All » justloverain 14 315 Last post August 19, 2016, 12:58:22 PM
by Jessica84
let's get married... no, just friends... gulp, sigh « 1 2 3  All » lar, laris 21 678 Last post August 18, 2016, 06:16:04 PM
by Lilyroze
Need help with this conversation « 1 2  All » jrharvey 16 453 Last post August 18, 2016, 01:12:38 AM
by Grey Kitty
How to stop the name calling Cloudy Days 8 266 Last post August 18, 2016, 01:07:15 AM
by adaw
It gets really good and then really bad - verbal and physical abuse « 1 2  All » ck1nix 10 447 Last post August 18, 2016, 01:04:05 AM
by heartandwhole
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