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Is this common? « 1 2  All » Hopeful07 10 263 Last post July 16, 2016, 12:56:15 AM
by waverider
Choosing to Stay "In Sickness and in Health" And the price you pay for it. Lighthouse777 3 93 Last post July 15, 2016, 05:19:23 PM
by NotThatGuy
Breaking out of bad spirals globalnomad 1 72 Last post July 15, 2016, 03:20:05 PM
by livednlearned
At the end of my rope and it's only been two months Frustrated6747 2 86 Last post July 15, 2016, 08:23:53 AM
by UnforgivenII
living with a BPD for 9 years, not all bad, current rages destroying my soul kalina 8 196 Last post July 15, 2016, 01:14:53 AM
by kalina
Hi :-) I need your help. Thanks in advance UnforgivenII 6 216 Last post July 14, 2016, 08:45:04 PM
by Riverrat
He wants to draw my tattoo Cloudy Days 1 78 Last post July 14, 2016, 07:01:49 AM
by williamskevin
How did you help your BPD partner realize that they have BPD? joshbjoshb 4 100 Last post July 13, 2016, 02:45:48 PM
by Hlinthewiking
How do you know when enough is enough? Fraggle12 1 77 Last post July 13, 2016, 02:05:27 PM
by Hlinthewiking
How do you know if your BPD GF really loves you? True Grenadine 2 132 Last post July 13, 2016, 01:29:22 PM
by Icanteven
How to balance push/pull? « 1 2 3  All » Jessica84 28 463 Last post July 13, 2016, 01:14:22 PM
by Jessica84
Controlling Our Environment townhouse 9 318 Last post July 13, 2016, 02:16:12 AM
by townhouse
Any hope? « 1 2  All » Mr Orange 13 231 Last post July 12, 2016, 03:31:03 PM
by Mr Orange
Pls someone tell me there BPD does this? « 1 2 3 4  All » Lou12 36 1208 Last post July 12, 2016, 01:17:00 PM
by VitaminC
Wife is in Denial and Lying Constantly To Me 0502910116 1 84 Last post July 12, 2016, 11:50:10 AM
by livednlearned
Sexual problems and affair brunoorteez 1 114 Last post July 12, 2016, 11:46:14 AM
by livednlearned
What is considered respect? Cloudy Days 8 274 Last post July 12, 2016, 12:18:27 AM
by motherhen
Been at it for so long - II « 1 2 3  All » BestVersionOfMe 26 326 Last post July 11, 2016, 03:31:26 AM
by waverider
Do I give in to her control ultimatum? « 1 2  All » williamskevin 11 197 Last post July 11, 2016, 12:00:43 AM
by waverider
Regulating emotions externally foggydew 1 74 Last post July 09, 2016, 08:25:43 PM
by waverider
Pregnant GF Distancing Herself bern4606 1 72 Last post July 09, 2016, 04:26:06 PM
by an0ught
Newbie here motherhen 3 78 Last post July 08, 2016, 11:32:55 PM
by Turkish
Reliable Cycles of Fighting « 1 2 3  All » Oncebitten 22 349 Last post July 08, 2016, 03:45:35 PM
by BestVersionOfMe
Why does he accuse me of being controlling? « 1 2  All » Kimtexas43 11 253 Last post July 07, 2016, 09:33:00 PM
by BestVersionOfMe
How do I tell her that she's going to lose me unless she stops drinking? « 1 2  All » Yaffle 14 336 Last post July 07, 2016, 09:00:19 AM
by BestVersionOfMe
New relationship London77 2 87 Last post July 07, 2016, 08:54:00 AM
by BestVersionOfMe
A BPD view on the world (funny snippet) williamskevin 7 273 Last post July 06, 2016, 11:41:58 PM
by BestVersionOfMe
A breakthrough? EmotionalWrek 3 100 Last post July 06, 2016, 04:44:46 PM
by BestVersionOfMe
Spouse newly diagnosised Kathy22 3 85 Last post July 06, 2016, 04:44:28 PM
by schwing
Excitement, happiness, joy? Kimtexas43 2 65 Last post July 06, 2016, 03:59:59 PM
by BestVersionOfMe
Husband is textbook case Kimtexas43 3 102 Last post July 06, 2016, 10:20:52 AM
by Kimtexas43
Been at it for so long - I « 1 2 ... 5 6  All » BestVersionOfMe 50 996 Last post July 05, 2016, 08:19:55 PM
by once removed
I used to let my wife guilt trip Horus 5 135 Last post July 05, 2016, 11:47:45 AM
by Grey Kitty
Gas-lighting or not. « 1 2  All » mssalty 11 266 Last post July 05, 2016, 11:32:45 AM
by Grey Kitty
Wife Giving Silent Treatment, Jealous of My Ex Wife and My Other Kids Milko 3 107 Last post July 05, 2016, 11:18:43 AM
by Grey Kitty
How to respond to BPD feeling alone and saying "I Hate You" fsoduck 2 81 Last post July 05, 2016, 08:43:06 AM
by hope2727
How to have my own time (husband) without making her feel abandoned? BPD Horus 4 164 Last post July 04, 2016, 10:41:21 AM
by BestVersionOfMe
Validation vs correction/reflection Horus 3 91 Last post July 03, 2016, 09:48:43 PM
by Horus
Is there such a thing as a truthful BPD ? « 1 2  All » william3693 11 416 Last post July 03, 2016, 05:45:57 PM
by waverider
stuck in a situation Amber2016 3 117 Last post July 03, 2016, 02:36:53 PM
by hope2727
coping medications badknees1 4 101 Last post July 03, 2016, 03:54:33 AM
by waverider
I feel lost and I want things to change Eightyeight 5 150 Last post July 02, 2016, 10:31:33 PM
by Woolspinner2000
Husband just diagnosed with BPD... Abbysmommy2011 7 169 Last post July 02, 2016, 06:49:07 PM
by an0ught
Following medication instructions Akita 7 124 Last post July 02, 2016, 03:59:20 PM
by schwing
Spillover from his frustration with others isilme 1 70 Last post July 01, 2016, 08:58:23 PM
by schwing
not rushing while not rejecting: where is the balance? patientandclear 6 170 Last post July 01, 2016, 07:44:21 PM
by patientandclear
I desperately want to believe him and start putting our family back together MadTrain 6 127 Last post July 01, 2016, 06:00:09 PM
by MadTrain
My boyfriend has a BPD ex... what are his needs? Akira81 1 102 Last post July 01, 2016, 05:52:07 PM
by schwing
She went nuts after bathroom faucet broke « 1 2 3  All » guitarguy09 22 1599 Last post July 01, 2016, 09:58:52 AM
by isilme
This is me (narcissttic) and my husband (BPD). What do I do uniquename 8 270 Last post July 01, 2016, 04:39:16 AM
by Reforming
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