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BPD Friend Going Through a Tough Time SummerStorm 5 113 Last post August 16, 2016, 11:04:49 AM
by Notwendy
Parenting with a BPD--extracurricular activities BowlOfPetunias 2 58 Last post August 16, 2016, 10:11:55 AM
by teapay
We had a really heated argument... Legacyvet 7 181 Last post August 16, 2016, 07:21:43 AM
by Legacyvet
Supporting her with the kids BowlOfPetunias 5 119 Last post August 15, 2016, 03:53:43 PM
by BowlOfPetunias
Just another day jrharvey 5 266 Last post August 15, 2016, 06:49:45 AM
by adaw
We are fighting again. What is JADE? Algarve1971 8 302 Last post August 15, 2016, 04:54:05 AM
by an0ught
Trying not to react to her jealousy « 1 2  All » jrharvey 10 231 Last post August 14, 2016, 05:37:50 PM
by Grey Kitty
Husband just diagnosed with BPD... Abbysmommy2011 8 289 Last post August 14, 2016, 04:53:05 PM
by adaw
Is there such a thing as a truthful BPD ? « 1 2  All » william3693 12 581 Last post August 14, 2016, 04:49:24 PM
by adaw
He wants to draw my tattoo Cloudy Days 2 139 Last post August 14, 2016, 04:42:33 PM
by adaw
Ever have this issue in your relationship? Baulwin 6 187 Last post August 14, 2016, 04:40:48 PM
by adaw
I love her. How to get a diagnosis and treatment. « 1 2  All » CoolThroawayName 10 273 Last post August 14, 2016, 03:10:35 PM
by adaw
Like defusing a bomb « 1 2  All » storagecold 16 512 Last post August 14, 2016, 03:03:19 PM
by adaw
I cooked too much broccoli. isilme 7 264 Last post August 14, 2016, 02:58:47 PM
by adaw
Thoughts on new boundary jrharvey 2 109 Last post August 14, 2016, 02:28:49 PM
by Skip
Ex GF has Boardeline Traits , Need Urgent advice « 1 2  All » stewlion07 10 228 Last post August 14, 2016, 01:31:39 PM
by SweetCharlotte
Behavioral Extinction Tool malaclemys1960 3 762 Last post August 14, 2016, 04:15:33 AM
by an0ught
Visiting from Detaching board - advice needed please izzybusy 1 72 Last post August 14, 2016, 03:51:25 AM
by an0ught
What does he need to hear from me at this point? « 1 2 ... 5 6  All » patientandclear 58 1420 Last post August 13, 2016, 09:35:08 PM
by Turkish
A trip away from my GF and a few other things « 1 2 3  All » jrharvey 22 290 Last post August 13, 2016, 03:08:18 PM
by jrharvey
24-year marriage, and she says it's over (again) NiceGuy22 2 100 Last post August 13, 2016, 06:34:50 AM
by Notwendy
Outside events affect behaviour townhouse 2 99 Last post August 12, 2016, 03:21:28 PM
by NotThatGuy
Help with Silent Treatment Hoping339 2 111 Last post August 12, 2016, 12:30:35 PM
by Lilyroze
BPDxgf still wants sex « 1 2  All » oz geary 12 370 Last post August 12, 2016, 02:20:31 AM
by heartandwhole
Hello efv48473 5 118 Last post August 11, 2016, 07:59:25 PM
by ArleighBurke
Should I play dumb? anonymous_in_NV 6 199 Last post August 11, 2016, 05:20:31 PM
by waverider
Bpd husband's behavior has returned. Need help 2long4sp 3 133 Last post August 11, 2016, 09:47:55 AM
by Turkish
Dealing with Anniversaries of Past Events - Their Reactions SummerStorm 0 138 Last post August 10, 2016, 09:28:57 PM
by SummerStorm
MOVED: Partner Left With 2 Young Children, Won't Let Me See Them Turkish 0 52 Last post August 10, 2016, 10:13:17 AM
by Turkish
How to better respond « 1 2 3  All » Lost_Kayaker 27 446 Last post August 10, 2016, 07:01:08 AM
by Lost_Kayaker
Losing my mind masongirl 1 97 Last post August 08, 2016, 05:21:41 AM
by patientandclear
How do you know when enough is enough? Fraggle12 3 201 Last post August 07, 2016, 10:56:03 PM
by waverider
Hurt by a nurse? SweetCharlotte 6 156 Last post August 07, 2016, 10:42:05 PM
by waverider
My LDR Boyfriend has BPD AnonChick 2 80 Last post August 07, 2016, 09:55:29 PM
by ArleighBurke
Blindsided... again « 1 2 3  All » Jessica84 25 484 Last post August 04, 2016, 06:56:24 PM
by waverider
Has anyone tried couples therapy with their partner? If so, how did it go? Curiously1 5 351 Last post August 04, 2016, 04:39:17 PM
by steev
She seduced me back aristan2000 6 241 Last post August 03, 2016, 12:01:20 PM
by Notwendy
Medical crisis bringing BPD to a head SweetCharlotte 3 135 Last post August 03, 2016, 01:24:50 AM
by SweetCharlotte
I have been feeling that spouse uses me financially michel71 6 165 Last post August 02, 2016, 12:20:22 PM
by tryingsome
Why can't she infer my emotions? ArleighBurke 5 164 Last post August 02, 2016, 09:05:26 AM
by waverider
Dealing with insecurity - mine foggydew 4 157 Last post August 01, 2016, 10:42:28 AM
by foggydew
I don't know where to turn... Masuimi 7 180 Last post August 01, 2016, 10:31:12 AM
by Masuimi
About to get married, fiancee has BPD « 1 2  All » Sputnik58 13 269 Last post July 30, 2016, 03:15:43 PM
by motherhen
My GF wants help. How can I help? jrharvey 9 228 Last post July 29, 2016, 08:19:02 PM
by Grey Kitty
Introduction « 1 2  All » Lost_Kayaker 12 232 Last post July 29, 2016, 03:38:23 PM
by motherhen
Progress « 1 2 3  All » jrharvey 25 508 Last post July 29, 2016, 02:04:54 PM
by samanthal
Sister doesn't get radical acceptance... conflict of personalities with wife guitarguy09 2 126 Last post July 29, 2016, 11:11:55 AM
by C.Stein
Using empathy and mutual understandings - rather than boundary enforcement « 1 2 3 4  All » needbpdhelp 38 2796 Last post July 28, 2016, 11:36:31 PM
by Lilyroze
I've been in a long abusive situation Wrath 5 238 Last post July 28, 2016, 07:21:32 PM
by livednlearned
Trying to save marriage MMarie 2 116 Last post July 28, 2016, 05:15:35 PM
by livednlearned
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