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pwBP realizes reasons for the push-pull? shatra 7 1057 Last post September 18, 2011, 03:09:46 AM
by mitti
Raising children from a previouse marriage justme722004 5 1876 Last post October 30, 2005, 12:19:51 PM
by justme722004
Reconcilliation date is set Steph 7 1301 Last post July 23, 2008, 06:58:55 PM
by Steph
Recovery at our house « 1 2 3  All » Steph 20 2084 Last post December 15, 2010, 07:11:28 PM
by Steph
Relationship barriers and excuses Seeks 2 218 Last post November 05, 2015, 05:46:11 PM
by sweet tooth
Something to think about « 1 2 3 4 5  All » Steph 46 5656 Last post November 15, 2009, 08:01:15 PM
by DragoN
Song... anyone relate? Steph 9 1087 Last post August 06, 2009, 07:24:11 PM
by Hope in Bondi Beach
Stayers..Are you happy you have stayed? Why? Why not? « 1 2 3 4  All » Steph 36 5504 Last post November 19, 2009, 07:53:49 AM
by August
The "Are you mad at me" game sunshine40 8 3607 Last post January 03, 2013, 02:58:15 PM
by briefcase
THe Dog Dilema Wanda 5 783 Last post April 14, 2010, 11:37:39 PM
by Wanda
The stuff they say... « 1 2  All » ArleighBurke 11 630 Last post February 02, 2016, 06:59:57 PM
by ArleighBurke
THe week is over and he is on his way home Wanda 0 187 Last post July 19, 2013, 07:05:28 PM
by Wanda
Therapeutic Separation Nutts45 7 1030 Last post July 28, 2011, 03:12:13 AM
by Nutts45
thought i would give a good news update « 1 2  All » Wanda 13 1248 Last post May 31, 2009, 10:47:33 AM
by Alex H
Too early thoughts for a Monday « 1 2 3 4  All » Steph 33 4676 Last post August 30, 2008, 07:53:39 AM
by supperone
Using outside sources to help a partner who threatens suicide NGU 8 417 Last post March 17, 2015, 11:33:58 AM
by Moxie
What am I doing with my life? 2 « 1 2  All » ifsogirl26 18 1923 Last post June 17, 2010, 07:24:41 PM
by eeyore
What are you seeking when you come to Staying? « 1 2 3  All » Steph 21 1797 Last post April 10, 2012, 06:17:29 AM
by yeeter
What do you do to relax and keep your mind off of worries? « 1 2  All » Wanda 10 1039 Last post August 18, 2012, 06:35:34 AM
by Validation78
what i do when it gets to much... Wanda 2 433 Last post November 02, 2011, 12:01:11 PM
by Wanda
Where we are at Steph 5 780 Last post June 11, 2008, 05:43:24 PM
by Steph
$$$ « 1 2 3  All » Champ 24 2148 Last post October 07, 2008, 08:32:25 AM
by united for now
$$$ blown on pot -- separate accounts? need advice « 1 2  All » atcrossroads 11 758 Last post August 08, 2012, 01:10:36 PM
by atcrossroads
$%&'d up a birthday, nice « 1 2 3 4 5  All » Gaslit 47 2252 Last post December 22, 2011, 07:39:07 PM
by Gaslit
$90.00 Soo worth it « 1 2  All » pk 17 1488 Last post November 09, 2010, 10:15:03 PM
by eeyore
" Chill Pill" Anyone? « 1 2  All » Hope in Bondi Beach 16 2292 Last post November 27, 2009, 02:54:03 PM
by an0ught
"" if you do, "" if you don't « 1 2  All » helpdm 11 1163 Last post April 14, 2010, 12:12:57 PM
by helpdm
"A Fresh Start" - any support welcomed greatly PhoenixRising15 7 1012 Last post September 22, 2013, 03:12:51 PM
by Scarlet Phoenix
"a girl can dream" ms. brightside 2 445 Last post September 23, 2010, 08:02:54 AM
by Fathom
"A-ha" moment about black and white thinking Carmina 4 495 Last post June 22, 2012, 09:40:35 AM
by waverider
"adult" conversation odiado 6 811 Last post August 09, 2010, 08:21:49 AM
by committed
"All you do is criticize" « 1 2 3 4 5  All » Cat Familiar 43 3477 Last post January 25, 2015, 11:23:26 AM
by Cat Familiar
"AND THE BEAT GOES ON" Ave Marina 3 879 Last post August 31, 2006, 03:19:48 PM
by Sapphire
"Are you angry at me?" is Today's Trigger « 1 2 3  All » CodependentHusband 24 1971 Last post December 16, 2011, 06:02:15 PM
by CodependentHusband
"Boundaries" I'm trying new approach JQ 3 252 Last post July 01, 2015, 06:24:23 PM
by waverider
"Can't wait for life to be over"... 2 hours later... yeah I'm fine « 1 2 3  All » tranch 27 2678 Last post February 24, 2010, 02:56:02 PM
by TonyC
"Compassionate listening" when the target is always me? AnitaL 3 298 Last post January 08, 2014, 04:52:51 AM
by waverider
"Continued... Long Time Companion of BPD" Char 2 679 Last post December 16, 2007, 08:26:20 PM
by Matt
"Cute" suicide threats tranch 6 857 Last post November 17, 2010, 03:51:37 PM
by dados76
"Daddy's angry at you" daylily 7 1316 Last post August 03, 2012, 11:43:15 PM
by Blazing Star
"Dark" Music, Videos, Etc. « 1 2  All » joethemechanic 12 1172 Last post February 08, 2014, 07:20:09 AM
by Climbmountains91
"Did I do something bad?" Exhausted of responding to this « 1 2  All » FartonmyHeart 13 742 Last post December 12, 2015, 09:27:41 PM
by FartonmyHeart
"Did they ask about me?" « 1 2  All » SoWhat 18 987 Last post February 20, 2014, 11:07:50 AM
by SoWhat
"Disregarding" him? isilme 2 186 Last post October 21, 2015, 04:32:25 PM
by babyducks
"Do you feel loved"? She asked « 1 2  All » joshbjoshb 13 635 Last post March 25, 2016, 10:51:21 AM
by an0ught
"Do you still think I'm mad?" « 1 2  All » Moselle 11 583 Last post November 26, 2014, 07:23:24 AM
by Moselle
"Do you think it's easy for me to have such a useless girlfriend?" misuniadziubek 8 399 Last post November 17, 2015, 01:14:54 PM
by misuniadziubek
"Don't Worry, My Friends Will Forgive You." « 1 2  All » HurtinNW 19 720 Last post February 07, 2016, 07:24:06 PM
by babyducks
"Don't you wonder why I feel this way?" IsItHerOrIsItMe 2 243 Last post October 01, 2015, 11:39:19 AM
by CrazyChuck
"Draw up the divorce papers" daylily 7 654 Last post October 11, 2012, 10:15:07 AM
by hopeforchange
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