[L3] Leaving: Detaching from the Wounds of a failed BPD Relationship

[Highly Recommended Book ...]

Highly Recommended Book ... Every day there are people who have lost a romantic relationship and feel as if life has lost its purpose. Susan Anderson, MSW, tells us that abandonment is about loss of love and that crucial loss of connectedness. This loss often involves breakup, betrayal, aloneness. This is an important book for members going through the end of a relationship.

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