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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means generating the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tension with your ex.
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WHO SHOULD POST ON THIS BOARD? BPDFamily 1 22930 Last post December 29, 2014, 01:27:39 PM
by livednlearned
CO-PARENTING: Doing what’s best for the kids BPDFamily 6 1656 Last post January 04, 2011, 11:14:41 PM
by BPDFamily
should I be concerned by two year olds behaviour. enlighten me 9 49 Last post Today at 03:57:25 PM
by Mike-X
gibberish rarsweet 6 46 Last post Today at 02:26:08 PM
by livednlearned
Programming a Child for Non-Custodial Time and the Signs scraps66 7 70 Last post Yesterday at 03:26:11 PM
by Turkish
my intro thread tortuga 8 101 Last post Yesterday at 12:41:35 AM
by tortuga
MOVED: Custody or Shared Parenting? Turkish 0 18 Last post April 23, 2015, 08:54:50 PM
by Turkish
Boundaries and Rewards trying2coparent 3 66 Last post April 23, 2015, 05:50:41 PM
by livednlearned
I don't know if I can keep going « 1 2 3  All » newlifeBPDfree 27 268 Last post April 23, 2015, 02:38:19 PM
by momtara
Doctor's visit, need advice on do I make contact or not? « 1 2  All » LeonVa 11 161 Last post April 23, 2015, 08:28:16 AM
by enlighten me
Feeling sad about Dad/DH, and about Kids. ennie 2 62 Last post April 22, 2015, 11:31:05 PM
by ennie
When A Hermit Visits The Doctor Turkish 3 67 Last post April 22, 2015, 10:36:35 PM
by Turkish
Why she wants to come over, be inappropriate to her fiance ~ Cleveland 8 201 Last post April 22, 2015, 05:49:55 PM
by ForeverDad
Doctor issues « 1 2  All » Eco 12 150 Last post April 22, 2015, 05:15:15 PM
by rarsweet
Ex Now Has bf Helping Coach S7 scraps66 5 157 Last post April 22, 2015, 02:25:45 PM
by highroadstepmom
depression in our kids « 1 2  All » livednlearned 16 233 Last post April 21, 2015, 07:34:50 PM
by Panda39
Daughter wishing reconciliation « 1 2  All » Mutt 13 229 Last post April 21, 2015, 08:46:50 AM
by Sunfl0wer
New to the boards Georgiabound 3 62 Last post April 20, 2015, 09:04:54 PM
by ogopogodude
Need advice on co-parenting with BPD parent Patient 1 59 Last post April 19, 2015, 10:13:45 AM
by livednlearned
Do we tell the kids what is in the court order? « 1 2  All » Nope 16 275 Last post April 17, 2015, 04:37:34 PM
by Rubies
counteracting BPD's who use their children as bargaining chips « 1 2  All » mother in law 11 272 Last post April 17, 2015, 01:02:57 PM
by Crayfog
POLL: What is parental alienation syndrom (PAS) - Craig Childress PsyD « 1 2  All » justaboutdone 12 1225 Last post April 17, 2015, 12:15:16 PM
by Sunfl0wer
Depression in young child? knockitoff 7 136 Last post April 17, 2015, 11:45:42 AM
by Panda39
attachment disorders catclaw 3 74 Last post April 17, 2015, 07:30:49 AM
by Sunfl0wer
A thread for small victories momtara 4 73 Last post April 16, 2015, 12:45:38 PM
by Rubies
uBPDm and infant child Advice? Smallville 4 80 Last post April 15, 2015, 10:20:18 PM
by momtara
BPD and her new boyfriend/spouse LeonVa 8 120 Last post April 15, 2015, 10:21:25 AM
by LeonVa
Co parenting swallace 7 186 Last post April 14, 2015, 08:43:21 PM
by Rubies
OM or OW in our kids lives « 1 2  All » Eco 12 206 Last post April 14, 2015, 05:17:37 PM
by Eco
Schedule switch drama Thunderstruck 7 145 Last post April 14, 2015, 02:22:02 PM
by ForeverDad
How's it going with BPD ex husbands? « 1 2 ... 6 7 » momtara 67 5342 Last post April 14, 2015, 11:04:50 AM
by momtara
New here. Not sure if it's BPD or NPD mommabeans 3 103 Last post April 13, 2015, 05:09:58 PM
by Turkish
Hi I'm New and Need Some Advice Please mfjson 2 77 Last post April 13, 2015, 11:40:41 AM
by momtara
uBPDm is taunting her child bravhart1 4 95 Last post April 13, 2015, 10:20:15 AM
by bravhart1
Son wants to buy vehicle « 1 2 3 4  All » whirlpoollife 36 604 Last post April 12, 2015, 10:21:32 AM
by whirlpoollife
Required joint decisions make exNPD/BPDh feel controlled? Ulysses 4 144 Last post April 12, 2015, 07:21:13 AM
by Sunfl0wer
advice « 1 2  All » Eco 15 249 Last post April 11, 2015, 04:51:43 PM
by Eco
Rage is building. Crayfog 6 196 Last post April 10, 2015, 10:55:39 PM
by whirlpoollife
Kids' Affection With OM Turkish 7 194 Last post April 09, 2015, 09:15:51 PM
by Ripped Heart
It's getting weird ShaSha 2 73 Last post April 09, 2015, 09:10:54 PM
by Panda39
Im my own worst enemy Eco 8 150 Last post April 09, 2015, 06:36:49 PM
by Eco
To Tell The Truth bravhart1 7 173 Last post April 09, 2015, 11:07:34 AM
by livednlearned
Will you tell us more about yourself? livednlearned 9 472 Last post April 07, 2015, 02:32:26 PM
by SWLSR
alienation rarsweet 2 72 Last post April 07, 2015, 08:20:03 AM
by scraps66
focusing on the positive: what are your ressources? catclaw 2 74 Last post April 02, 2015, 12:40:29 PM
by catclaw
NC while co-parenting? « 1 2  All » Their Dad 12 290 Last post April 01, 2015, 11:02:54 AM
by bravhart1
Alienation of children « 1 2 3  All » newlifeBPDfree 21 620 Last post April 01, 2015, 06:10:43 AM
by newlifeBPDfree
adoption in progress for BPDw emergent 1 94 Last post March 31, 2015, 02:30:44 PM
by livednlearned
High conflict seems to be over, but maybe the Pluto DVD helped... « 1 2  All » sanemom 14 356 Last post March 31, 2015, 11:09:14 AM
by ForeverDad
BPD obstructing medical/mental health trying2coparent 4 157 Last post March 31, 2015, 08:40:43 AM
by livednlearned
Getting used to 50/50 custody? Their Dad 7 172 Last post March 31, 2015, 01:28:50 AM
by Their Dad
Have I reached my tolerance? Fresia* 3 119 Last post March 30, 2015, 06:27:09 PM
by livednlearned
Has anyone had BPD protest WBP? bravhart1 4 170 Last post March 29, 2015, 08:19:08 PM
by bravhart1
trying to handle things different « 1 2  All » Eco 15 285 Last post March 28, 2015, 11:43:23 PM
by Eco
no responses rarsweet 4 117 Last post March 27, 2015, 12:27:24 PM
by momtara
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