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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means generating the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tension with your ex.
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CO-PARENTING: Doing what’s best for the kids BPDFamily 6 5900 Last post January 04, 2011, 11:14:41 PM
by BPDFamily
WHO SHOULD POST ON THIS BOARD? BPDFamily 1 25594 Last post December 29, 2014, 01:27:39 PM
by livednlearned
Re: re-runs in Syndication ditchdigger 3 3462 Last post October 02, 2005, 10:07:24 PM
by Snaps
Back on board Arwen 4 1387 Last post October 02, 2005, 11:22:00 PM
by bluemumdaughterbpd
Re: Am I a horrible parent? runningwater 1 1404 Last post October 03, 2005, 07:38:04 AM
by laurena82
Re: Priceless... TexasSky 0 1031 Last post October 03, 2005, 12:45:17 PM
by TexasSky
Re: Just WHO is supposed to be the adult? TexasSky 0 951 Last post October 03, 2005, 09:37:43 PM
by TexasSky
When a little girl starts acting like BPD Mommy « 1 2  All » John Galt 12 2398 Last post October 04, 2005, 09:16:23 AM
by John Galt
uBPD threatened to sue therapist pennyrw 6 1467 Last post October 04, 2005, 05:25:30 PM
by happygirl
Act - but after something happens bewildered 4 1139 Last post October 06, 2005, 07:08:37 PM
by bewildered
Emotional support heartchakra 3 970 Last post October 07, 2005, 01:55:18 AM
by happygirl
Re: Thinking of Giving Up bewildered 0 1409 Last post October 08, 2005, 03:56:37 PM
by bewildered
Re: Shes ignoring emails about the holidays Morphine 4 1170 Last post October 10, 2005, 11:36:50 AM
by Coolmomof4
Flag Football englishvol 6 1319 Last post October 10, 2005, 02:37:09 PM
by englishvol
"The Tribe has Spoken... " Morphine 6 1672 Last post October 12, 2005, 08:19:52 AM
by Kystepmom2004
Your thoughts.. « 1 2  All » Randi Kreger 11 1950 Last post October 12, 2005, 01:53:22 PM
by Oy-vey!
Venting: BP moms birthday and "the Card" Coolmomof4 2 930 Last post October 13, 2005, 01:05:34 AM
by wornout
Not sure I belong here... Virginia 3 1067 Last post October 13, 2005, 06:38:02 AM
by Ada
BPD daughter -need help desperately bubbe 6 1479 Last post October 14, 2005, 01:26:48 AM
by wornout
uBPDmom & uncle in cahoots--HELP « 1 2  All » pennyrw 12 1481 Last post October 14, 2005, 02:03:17 PM
by pennyrw
Ugh Teacher and SS issues with school « 1 2  All » Coolmomof4 10 1563 Last post October 15, 2005, 12:50:19 AM
by wornout
Hi, its been a while... Missy 3 827 Last post October 15, 2005, 01:13:32 AM
by wornout
Re: Paying Child Support to the child? Morphine 0 1259 Last post October 15, 2005, 11:16:29 AM
by Morphine
I need some serious advice for my grandson finally had enough 5 1198 Last post October 15, 2005, 08:29:52 PM
by finally had enough
Re: Scheduling activities for skids tiredrn65 0 813 Last post October 16, 2005, 11:25:58 PM
by tiredrn65
The lies the uBPDx tells my SD continue... juggling2BPDs 2 797 Last post October 17, 2005, 08:09:21 AM
by jr
BPDmom husband#3 talks to my brother... Kystepmom2004 3 796 Last post October 17, 2005, 03:04:23 PM
by Morphine
Summons was served... DebiD 9 1212 Last post October 19, 2005, 02:13:41 PM
by DebiD
BPD or self-preservation heartchakra 1 992 Last post October 20, 2005, 03:03:59 AM
by wornout
Did I just feed myself to the lion? karategrrl 3 835 Last post October 21, 2005, 09:03:59 AM
by karategrrl
How to discourage Non tendencies in a teen child of BPD parent? « 1 2  All » ariel001 11 1914 Last post October 22, 2005, 10:41:52 AM
by ariel001
update on pennyrw and uBPD pennyrw 4 804 Last post October 25, 2005, 02:03:00 PM
by undone
More needy/more insecure LifeLover 4 821 Last post October 25, 2005, 05:27:18 PM
by LifeLover
BPDmom has problem with learning time.. Kystepmom2004 6 966 Last post October 26, 2005, 02:10:29 AM
by wornout
Butting in... djbett 5 1001 Last post October 27, 2005, 04:21:26 PM
by djbett
Legal Black Hole and the BPXs who love them tiredrn65 1 748 Last post October 31, 2005, 05:56:53 AM
by Morphine
Happy Halloween Everyone Morphine 5 932 Last post October 31, 2005, 08:41:22 AM
by Coolmomof4
Weekend Email Response. (Part 3) UNBELIEVABLE « 1 2 3 4 5  All » Morphine 42 3348 Last post October 31, 2005, 09:29:01 AM
by ditchdigger
expert witnesses/testing « 1 2  All » bill35 11 1400 Last post November 01, 2005, 11:03:36 AM
by bill35
It would be funny if it wasnt so sick Missy 0 704 Last post November 03, 2005, 09:45:16 AM
by Missy
BPD-mom talking about stepmom? Kystepmom2004 7 1078 Last post November 03, 2005, 01:41:04 PM
by Kystepmom2004
Nons and learning boundaries « 1 2  All » Missy 16 1694 Last post November 03, 2005, 07:06:27 PM
by laurena82
Discipline Problems with Sson kellwill 4 657 Last post November 04, 2005, 10:46:55 AM
by kellwill
Need Help/Advice « 1 2  All » Luckygirl 15 1281 Last post November 04, 2005, 06:02:28 PM
by laurena82
Single Parenting- Before and After the Divorce TexasSky 8 942 Last post November 05, 2005, 08:12:05 PM
by nelsonkl
SD visitation pennyrw 4 653 Last post November 09, 2005, 10:04:22 AM
by pennyrw
Why didnt I just hang up? « 1 2  All » lifeizfun 11 1460 Last post November 09, 2005, 08:05:45 PM
by intoodeep
My Little Girl - Calling Out Step-Idiot « 1 2 3 4  All » Morphine 31 2853 Last post November 11, 2005, 10:07:29 AM
by Morphine
What do you think? karategrrl 2 554 Last post November 12, 2005, 06:29:52 AM
by Morphine
uBPD and CPS « 1 2  All » pennyrw 18 1610 Last post November 13, 2005, 09:11:50 AM
by laurena82
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