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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means generating the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tension with your ex.
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CO-PARENTING: Doing what’s best for the kids BPDFamily 6 837 Last post January 04, 2011, 11:14:41 PM
by BPDFamily
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Re: re-runs in Syndication ditchdigger 3 2333 Last post October 02, 2005, 10:07:24 PM
by Snaps
Back on board Arwen 4 1191 Last post October 02, 2005, 11:22:00 PM
by bluemumdaughterbpd
Re: Am I a horrible parent? runningwater 1 1236 Last post October 03, 2005, 07:38:04 AM
by laurena82
Re: Priceless... TexasSky 0 930 Last post October 03, 2005, 12:45:17 PM
by TexasSky
Re: Just WHO is supposed to be the adult? TexasSky 0 828 Last post October 03, 2005, 09:37:43 PM
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by John Galt
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by happygirl
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by bewildered
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by happygirl
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by bewildered
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by Coolmomof4
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by englishvol
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by Kystepmom2004
Your thoughts.. « 1 2  All » Randi Kreger 12 1713 Last post October 12, 2005, 01:53:22 PM
by Oy-vey!
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by wornout
Not sure I belong here... Virginia 3 860 Last post October 13, 2005, 06:38:02 AM
by Ada
BPD daughter -need help desperately bubbe 6 1247 Last post October 14, 2005, 01:26:48 AM
by wornout
uBPDmom & uncle in cahoots--HELP « 1 2  All » pennyrw 12 1225 Last post October 14, 2005, 02:03:17 PM
by pennyrw
Ugh Teacher and SS issues with school « 1 2  All » Coolmomof4 10 1301 Last post October 15, 2005, 12:50:19 AM
by wornout
Hi, its been a while... Missy 3 700 Last post October 15, 2005, 01:13:32 AM
by wornout
Re: Paying Child Support to the child? Morphine 0 1161 Last post October 15, 2005, 11:16:29 AM
by Morphine
I need some serious advice for my grandson finally had enough 5 1026 Last post October 15, 2005, 08:29:52 PM
by finally had enough
Re: Scheduling activities for skids tiredrn65 0 643 Last post October 16, 2005, 11:25:58 PM
by tiredrn65
The lies the uBPDx tells my SD continue... juggling2BPDs 2 672 Last post October 17, 2005, 08:09:21 AM
by jr
BPDmom husband#3 talks to my brother... Kystepmom2004 3 636 Last post October 17, 2005, 03:04:23 PM
by Morphine
Summons was served... DebiD 9 1024 Last post October 19, 2005, 02:13:41 PM
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by wornout
Did I just feed myself to the lion? karategrrl 3 683 Last post October 21, 2005, 09:03:59 AM
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BPDmom has problem with learning time.. Kystepmom2004 6 805 Last post October 26, 2005, 02:10:29 AM
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Butting in... djbett 5 850 Last post October 27, 2005, 04:21:26 PM
by djbett
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by Morphine
Happy Halloween Everyone Morphine 5 784 Last post October 31, 2005, 08:41:22 AM
by Coolmomof4
Weekend Email Response. (Part 3) UNBELIEVABLE « 1 2 3 4 5  All » Morphine 42 2824 Last post October 31, 2005, 09:29:01 AM
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expert witnesses/testing « 1 2  All » bill35 11 1127 Last post November 01, 2005, 11:03:36 AM
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by Missy
BPD-mom talking about stepmom? Kystepmom2004 7 911 Last post November 03, 2005, 01:41:04 PM
by Kystepmom2004
Nons and learning boundaries « 1 2  All » Missy 16 1383 Last post November 03, 2005, 07:06:27 PM
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Need Help/Advice « 1 2  All » Luckygirl 15 976 Last post November 04, 2005, 06:02:28 PM
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Single Parenting- Before and After the Divorce TexasSky 8 805 Last post November 05, 2005, 08:12:05 PM
by nelsonkl
SD visitation pennyrw 4 496 Last post November 09, 2005, 10:04:22 AM
by pennyrw
Why didnt I just hang up? « 1 2  All » lifeizfun 11 1131 Last post November 09, 2005, 08:05:45 PM
by intoodeep
My Little Girl - Calling Out Step-Idiot « 1 2 3 4  All » Morphine 31 2430 Last post November 11, 2005, 10:07:29 AM
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What do you think? karategrrl 2 427 Last post November 12, 2005, 06:29:52 AM
by Morphine
uBPD and CPS « 1 2  All » pennyrw 18 1331 Last post November 13, 2005, 09:11:50 AM
by laurena82
Found in Contempt DebiD 8 797 Last post November 14, 2005, 01:39:07 PM
by Fabelli
Bringing child to meet attorney? runningwater 6 681 Last post November 14, 2005, 02:39:18 PM
by runningwater
So pathethic UKBird 2 532 Last post November 14, 2005, 11:31:14 PM
by wornout
Projection as its best Luckygirl 1 546 Last post November 18, 2005, 11:50:50 AM
by Snaps
Sole Custody & Wills OnWithLife 5 5174 Last post November 20, 2005, 10:22:10 AM
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