a question that irritates me whenever I hear it

[Think About It...]

a vent..

does it bother anyone else..questions in the negatives..

one in particular

"whats wrong?" (making an assumption based on you face)

whatever happened to "how are you?"

stuck in traffic yesterday  felt jumped on by hubby and son (who has picked up this phrase from my hubby)


it so irritates me..

yes I am in traffic..I am not swearing or carrying on...paying attention to bikes..pedestrians and cars..heavilly congested..

but then the picking starts..heck I was dealing with my stress just fine..focusing on music..

and now you wanna interject yourself and make a problem?

when I say..traffic..it doesnt end there..ususally its

"no something else" 

grrrr  no patience for that I am sorry

[harmony1]

a vent..

does it bother anyone else..questions in the negatives..

one in particular

"whats wrong?" (making an assumption based on you face)

whatever happened to "how are you?"

stuck in traffic yesterday  felt jumped on by hubby and son (who has picked up this phrase from my hubby)


it so irritates me..

yes I am in traffic..I am not swearing or carrying on...paying attention to bikes..pedestrians and cars..heavilly congested..

but then the picking starts..heck I was dealing with my stress just fine..focusing on music..

and now you wanna interject yourself and make a problem?

when I say..traffic..it doesnt end there..ususally its

"no something else" 

grrrr  no patience for that I am sorry

[TonyC]

harmony

whats wrong?




just kidding. hi how are ya ...
babe maybe you have a game face too...when you upset with traffic...next time in the car whistle show tunes... and bop to them.. they will think your out of your tree..
why dont you let him drive.. problem solved..

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When my boys are irritating me - I put in my Backstreet Boys CD... shuts em up real quick 

[TonyC]

thats cruel...

[harmony1]

too funny..no I drove mainly cause he cant drive city traffic and stay calm..

me I can drive it..doesnt mean I am not stressed I just dont make everyone pay for it 


I was listening to music..its just I dont have it up so loud that no one can talk...my hubby does that...the kids hate it..so do I..blaring the radio in everyones ear..very controlling  especially on long car trips...


same as..

two people having a conversation in a room..one person walks in..

is there a problem?

me-huh? why do you think?

and I hate that cause the interrupting person is taking away from the person I am talking to..so I consider that rude to the other person in the room

so its either..be interruptted

be stuck in the car..

neither place..can walk away

[harmony1]

am seriously considering just answering

Im bloated and my boob hurt..that should stop it huh? 

[TonyC]

or you could pull over and say go get pretzels..from the guy over there..

and motor on home. alone

[Forestaken]

a vent..

does it bother anyone else..questions in the negatives..

one in particular

"whats wrong?" (making an assumption based on you face)

whatever happened to "how are you?"

stuck in traffic yesterday 

yes I am in traffic..I am not swearing or carrying on...paying attention to bikes..pedestrians and cars..heavilly congested..

when I say..traffic..it doesnt end there..ususally its

"no something else" 

grrrr  no patience for that I am sorry

Me too. I get that all of the time.  My uBPDW doesn't drive.  I sometimes respond with "I really hate going shopping."
My new tactic: I refuse to unload the groceries.  I just grab a cold one and sit on the sofa and say "I drove. Someone else has to bring them in and put them away.  It's only fair."