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Author Topic: Do you guys tell your BPD that you use this board?  (Read 177 times)
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« on: December 26, 2011, 09:49:43 AM »
Why/why not? How? How have they reacted?
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« Reply #1 on: December 26, 2011, 09:58:44 AM »
Mine has seen it in the history and questioned me about it, mainly wanting my sign on and password (I'm stupid, but not that stupid).  I tell her the truth, that it helps me deal with her.  She doesn't like it.
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« Reply #2 on: December 26, 2011, 11:19:21 AM »
I've mentioned that I've been on the board, but I also made it clear that not only is she not allowed on, but that this board is not meant for people with BPD.  I haven't had any issues with it, knock on wood. smiley
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« Reply #3 on: December 26, 2011, 11:20:40 AM »
It is strongly recommended NOT to show your pwBPD this board.

This board is for you, personally. Keeping this board private is helping you to be more open and is a healthy boundary. All sorts of unhealthy dynamics start when partners show up here so please keep this information to yourself.

It may help to review this workshop: http://BPDfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=128107.0 for why privacy is healthy...
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