First she (or someone she knew) emptied my bank account 4 days before xmas so I was dead broke and had no access to ANY funds, and still don't.
I was working with the police to set her up to get arrested on xmas day when she was supposed to meet us to give him some gifts.
Well starting the day before xmas she started texting little things that suggested things were about to go off the rails.
By early evening on xmas eve she was texting both of us long dramatic messages about having a migraine and needing to go to the ER. As we drove home "her BF" (using her phone supposedly) started texting me saying he was worried because she was in so much pain and vomiting and all this other drivel and asking me what should he do. I have no idea if it was actually a man or just her pulling some crazy manipulation but it continued over 5-6 texts and began insulting ME because I was being "so insensitive" and demanding I "show some respect and at least respond". So I just finally replied something like "I don't know dude, take her to the ER or give her some Excedrine for god's sake, I am DRIVING".
First thing Xmas morning she/he starts texting again about how they were in the ER all night and she was sleeping so he would stay in touch and figure out when THEY would be able to meet us to give my son some gifts.
Then SHE called him mid afternoon and was blubbering about how bad she felt and then started going into her financial troubles and how she was behind in school and all manner of dramatic "poor me" bull$hit that a kid should not have to listen to from his mother.
By the end of this my son was depressed and didn't want to participate in any family gathering and refused to get out of bed to go anywhere.
Early evening she (again as the role of her caring BF, or possibly ACTUALLY some poor sap she has conned again) started texting me again, saying she was sick again and he was taking her back to the ER, on xmas DAY for her "migraine". I basically blew it off and didn't respond but he/she texted my son telling him about how his mother loves him but she is sick and going to the ER and they will update him as soon as they know anything.
No one heard anything again after about 8PM xmas day.
4PM Monday "He" texted me asking if I had gotten all the recent texts from the night before about how bad off she was etc. I responded saying yes I had but I didn't want to hear anymore drama and neither did my son, the only thing "they needed" to tell my son,, and NOT ME, was when they would be able to drop off his gifts, if at all.
This person again launched into some tyrade (via text) about how I was being an insensitive ass and she had been in the ER all night again and they had found "a mass on her brain and spent all night trying to drain it".
I lost it, I seriously snapped, I responded that I do not need to know what bullsht made up crap she/he had to say, to quit calling and texting and to basically go die in a fire.
He proceeded to bombard my phone with messages about what a bad person I was and how she was sick and I should show some sympathy for the mother of my child etc etc.
So on the off chance that it really was some dumb dude caught in the middle I replied "Well how much sympathy did she have when she was forging my checks and stealing my bank card leaving my account drained the week before xmas, or when she defrauded welfare and I had to prove she was lying and never had my son?"...
what ensued was a avalanche of unproductive, barely coherent texts that appeared to be either a mad man who was not trapped in the middle and being told about CRIMES his "sick" woman did, or HER suddenly confronted with things she had most likely assumed I didn't know about. I finally deleted all the texts and sent one last text telling her to NEVER contact me, text me, or anything and if I ever see her in person again I will call the police on her.
All I can assume from all of this is that she had dis-regulated due to the holidays and was feeling bad because my son and I were going to go have a nice weekend with all of our families that she is explicitly excluded from, so she selfishly had to create some dramatic scene to try to garner sympathy and make it somehow about HER. All it resulted in is making her son talk about how much he hates her and wishes she would just go die so he never has to hear from her again and can just go on with his life.
Thanks for reading, I am not looking for sympathy, but maybe just venting a little.
Maybe seeing what others that have had to deal with this kind of crazy would think of this situation.