ExBPD- You need to get over you're mom's death

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I have one for you. The ExBPD and I were discussing with the Counselor when she looked at me and said you need to get over you're mom's death. I don't understand why you are stuck. As my couselor would tell me later as I still attend, you handled that situation well by tempering it. I was shocked and totally lost respect for her. Pathetic!

She actually told me that her mom would be glad to Counsel (she is a counselor) me if I would allow it. Yea right! Like I am that stupid. That did not happend as similar pathology exist.  When I would not let her move in after 6 months of dating, she moved home with her mother and I of course helped her move  . I am glad that I did not allow her to move in. Dogged a bullter for sure!

I must say her words regarding my deceased mom still impact me and I left the relationship 1 yer ago. Deeply wounded me, words that is. She tried contacting me and I did not respond. Glad she moved on. Hopefully, she will not bother me again. Removed her from FB.

Eric

[Kentucky1]

I have one for you. The ExBPD and I were discussing with the Counselor when she looked at me and said you need to get over you're mom's death. I don't understand why you are stuck. As my couselor would tell me later as I still attend, you handled that situation well by tempering it. I was shocked and totally lost respect for her. Pathetic!

She actually told me that her mom would be glad to Counsel (she is a counselor) me if I would allow it. Yea right! Like I am that stupid. That did not happend as similar pathology exist.  When I would not let her move in after 6 months of dating, she moved home with her mother and I of course helped her move  . I am glad that I did not allow her to move in. Dogged a bullter for sure!

I must say her words regarding my deceased mom still impact me and I left the relationship 1 yer ago. Deeply wounded me, words that is. She tried contacting me and I did not respond. Glad she moved on. Hopefully, she will not bother me again. Removed her from FB.

Eric

[Clearmind]

Kentucky, processing their own grief is very difficult let alone understanding someone else's grief. I am honestly sorry to hear of your mum's passing. Find comfort in that your ex could not have provided the words you need to feel better. This is the nature of the disorder.

There is nothing better than hearing soothing words from a partner - understanding that BPD is a very real illness and your ex did not mean harm in saying what she did - she honestly cannot understand it on an emotional level given BPD is an emotional disorder.

Blocking is always a good idea so you can begin to look after you and detach.

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