I have one for you. The ExBPD and I were discussing with the Counselor when she looked at me and said you need to get over you're mom's death. I don't understand why you are stuck. As my couselor would tell me later as I still attend, you handled that situation well by tempering it. I was shocked and totally lost respect for her. Pathetic!
She actually told me that her mom would be glad to Counsel (she is a counselor) me if I would allow it. Yea right! Like I am that stupid. That did not happend as similar pathology exist. When I would not let her move in after 6 months of dating, she moved home with her mother and I of course helped her move
. I am glad that I did not allow her to move in. Dogged a bullter for sure!
I must say her words regarding my deceased mom still impact me and I left the relationship 1 yer ago. Deeply wounded me, words that is. She tried contacting me and I did not respond. Glad she moved on. Hopefully, she will not bother me again. Removed her from FB.