This is the dance. It could be:
-he got relief for his uncontrollable emotions by pushing you away with the divorce threats
-he could be acting civil to ease the divorce
-he could be sincere in wanting to be nice for awhile
Regardless of his intent do you want to be in a marriage with someone who constantly threats his withdrawl from the relationship with divorce. It stalls any forward movement, healthy bonding and intimacy inherent in a good marriage. I'd take him up on the divorce offer...you deserve to be happy.
dont worry gm, its divorce without a doubt...what i know that he doesnt know i know is he has contacted a female client and let her know he is relocating his business to work from home. Its the same client that I watched him flirt with and he acted out that i was insane when I asked him what that was all about.
he also has his wedding ring off. this is not about wanting me back...its about keeping me on the good side so I wont let the police know he is growing dope. Its a tactic.