Hi mitchell16 Hi! Good for you, not taking her late night call
By not responding, you're setting a great example (and boundary for yourself!), that drunk calls at that hour are unacceptable. No response (from you), is the best response to such immature behavior.
We teach others how to treat us by what we accept; the good, the bad and the ugly...
she just needed to talk to me and that she was sorry and missed me. I didnt talk to her but her Voicemail she sound drunk.
Sounds like it was all about her, in that moment - she needed
to talk to you, to make sure you were still there. In the light of day after she sobers up
, let's see if you still get an 'I'm sorry' AND an apology for calling so late.
Don't settle for anything less