The problem is no matter how many times you forgive, 100 or 1000 there will alway be a next time and I think that is what broke me down.
This is what keeps me up nights. I know that no matter how much empathy I develop, how much love I show, how awesome she is TONIGHT--there will be a tomorrow and on that day she will want me to leave the state, leave the country or leave the planet. All the while she will be leaving her options open. Today I am the one she loves; tomorrow I will be the scourge of her life.
Nothing I do seems to change that...and as said here, it really wears me down.
But I love her, so I stay. I truly don't know what else to do.