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Think About It... Some members think of "triangulation" as a dysfunctional behavior perpetrated on them by a person with BPD. And why not - this is how we often see triangles when we are in them and the '"odd man out"! However, seeing it this way is exactly the opposite of what we want to do to end the drama.. ~ Skippy
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« on: June 10, 2012, 04:28:18 AM »

I've recently read a few articles a bout relationships (mostly pretty editorial) that refer to romantic relationship pairings as "us against the world." My ex friend and his girlfriend seem to trying to live this sentiment in a literal sense. To me, that attitude seems immature, unnecessarily adversarial, and significantly myopic. While I do see my own marriage as special to me, I don't it as a club everyone wants in, but can't, so NYAH!

I don't know. Maybe I'm just being bitter. :/
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