Thought i would share this link on here.
I understand how supportive BPDfamily can be and is an absolute goldmine for those that find this place, full of support and advice.
That said i found a web link for 1 to 1 advice and support.
They emailed me back within 24 hours with good solid advice for myself, not much more than i already knew or had learnt here or was already practising but again it gave me validation from a source that deals with separated families rather than personality disorders but very similar info was given and also new info and fact sheets reguarding my daughter.
Im sure a few would find this 1 to 1 advice/support of some use.
http://www.separatedfamilies.info/families/email-advice-service/i emailed them directly using the email on there contacts page rather than fill the online form.