That was my experience. I guess we had a mutual friend and he showed him my Facebook page and he was right back to contacting me.
wow, that doesn't sound so much like a friend - sorry that happened to you.
As much as my friends really roll their eyes at me, this is one of the reasons that I just don't post anything about my life on FB. I know others here love it and I am not judging it at all - for me, I just decided that I didn't need my life to be public knowledge...it's been nice.
Trying to recycle when I was in a relationship after 6 months NC. I would have been indifferent to it until the suicide threats became a big deal. I wish I had held true when I told him I was going to call the police.
if there is a next time, you will just call 911 - it really is that simple. The thing about boundaries; once we establish them - it is easier to keep them. I am sure you did the best you could with the info you had when that happened.
I feel just so betrayed that he would minipulate me with suicide. Telling me word for word that his blood would be on my hands, no one else's, mine. Well he got me to meet him secretly (at the time) and he threw a temper tantrum that ended up in me being physically pushed, grabbed and in the end, punched. It's taken me a while to come to terms with it. I just felt so mentally weak.
I am sorry that happened to you zaza - both emotionally and physically you were harmed. Unfortunately, suicide threats sometimes is real and sometimes a manipulation tool - since we don't know which; calling 911 is the only real solution. Those folks are better equipped to handle whichever scenerio plays out.
Hang in there,