Sometimes the guy in the driver's seat has the worst view of the road ahead. And right now, I'm driving through thick FFFog (emphasis intended).
I see a lot of

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I've told her how I feel.
I don't think she really thinks this guy is trying to set her up. The thought may have crossed her mind, but I don't think she really believes that. Anyway, I don't believe it. I think his interest is real.
Beyond basking in his attention, I don't think W has any intention of having a physical affair. I worry about the over the top communication and the type of bond that implies.
Still thinking things through.