What if the knew we were here?

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Since I was raged at once for cleaning out a coffee pot,  I think that she would probably put a contract out on me if she knew what I was doing here.  Therefore, HNM would truly be HostNoMore.

I do try my best to maintain anonymity for her though as I do not hate her.  I do not want to really hurt her as she is high functioning and holds a professional position. 

This is solely about me and my recovery which this board as sped up ten fold. I also want to help others recover as others have helped me.

[HostNoMore]

Since I was raged at once for cleaning out a coffee pot,  I think that she would probably put a contract out on me if she knew what I was doing here.  Therefore, HNM would truly be HostNoMore.

I do try my best to maintain anonymity for her though as I do not hate her.  I do not want to really hurt her as she is high functioning and holds a professional position. 

This is solely about me and my recovery which this board as sped up ten fold. I also want to help others recover as others have helped me.

[Nemo]

Since I was raged at once for cleaning out a coffee pot,  I think that she would probably put a contract out on me if she knew what I was doing here.  Therefore, HNM would truly be HostNoMore.

Got raged on myself for buying a coffee machine for the Office + candy for my colleagues.
Total madness

[GettinStronger]

ha! i got my rage for buying mountain dew for $1.25 out of the machine - I was only one working and i drink a soda MAYBE once every two or three weeks

[Nemo]

ha! i got my rage for buying mountain dew for $1.25 out of the machine - I was only one working and i drink a soda MAYBE once every two or three weeks

Got raged on for having a shower a couple of times  
And the wrong shoes + getting a haircut

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[the_way_back]

Mine did find me here under my old user name and did rage.

She didn't like the way we talk about BPDs. That somehow we talk like they're less than human. Well if the cap fits right?

That was sarcasm. But she did say "you're taking about actual human beings!" I took the point but had to ask "and? What exactly then, stopped you treating me like I was human being?"

They do feel empathy...but only for themselves...which is an oxymoron. But then if you consider that they have a jekyll and hyde nature, perhaps one can feel empathy for the other. Who knows? I personally don't care. I'm out of the dance and feeling a whole lot better for it. Thanks in no small part to this board.