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« Reply #40 on: May 27, 2012, 09:35:41 AM »

You are not alone. I believed that I was a strong person before the relationship I allowed myself to fall into. It was an abusive trap. With the benefit of hindsight, I gave my heart and soul to somebody who gladly accepted it and in return, created a crazy disorienting sort of abuse. Regular break ups, protracted conversations that resolved nothing, betrayal with other guys, a child within months, a smear campaign and after a year and a half, abusing the legal system for a bit of closure/fun. Her second time in a row on a guy to escape looking like a victim. Two years on, a child is alienated. Am I defeated? No. I am grateful to be away from this abusive woman and her family. It is a victory. Will she return? I don't believe so.
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bernbeau
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« Reply #41 on: June 01, 2012, 01:37:47 PM »

Hey, maybe it wasn't the new bf, but her! Using his FB account!

Just a thought!
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