Such a creep sometimes

[Think About It...]

So my BPDxbf sees our son once a week on sundays (most weeks) and once in a while during the week for an hour or two.  This weekend he decides to hint at sex.  He says how he's had to stare at my cleavedge through dinner so what do i expect?  I decline very graciously, so i dont cause an upset.  This morning he cancels his day with our son.  He is only 20 months old so doesnt understand.  This is today's reason that supports my decision to move.  I dont want to explain missed daddy days to a tearful 3+yr old.

Once i got mad he agreed to pick him up late in the day.  Well maybe.  If he can.  Its not entirely his dads fault because the amount of stress he has at work.  He is trying to notice when he is overwhelmed and ask for time to himself before taking our son so that he doesnt accidentally expose him to his anger.  The stress also explains the ask for sex.  He deserves applause and encouragement feom me. 

But...this post isnt about me or him really.  Its about my son and a big reason we must move though my heart is breaking.  Im hoping to avoid our sons heartbreak in the future.

I hope im doing the right thing. 

[tcevans78]

So my BPDxbf sees our son once a week on sundays (most weeks) and once in a while during the week for an hour or two.  This weekend he decides to hint at sex.  He says how he's had to stare at my cleavedge through dinner so what do i expect?  I decline very graciously, so i dont cause an upset.  This morning he cancels his day with our son.  He is only 20 months old so doesnt understand.  This is today's reason that supports my decision to move.  I dont want to explain missed daddy days to a tearful 3+yr old.

Once i got mad he agreed to pick him up late in the day.  Well maybe.  If he can.  Its not entirely his dads fault because the amount of stress he has at work.  He is trying to notice when he is overwhelmed and ask for time to himself before taking our son so that he doesnt accidentally expose him to his anger.  The stress also explains the ask for sex.  He deserves applause and encouragement feom me. 

But...this post isnt about me or him really.  Its about my son and a big reason we must move though my heart is breaking.  Im hoping to avoid our sons heartbreak in the future.

I hope im doing the right thing.