My immeadiate thoughts are to talk to my family and see if one of my brothers can take the kids while i sort out what is what. A big ask as they have families of their own and it would mean she would end up impacting into their lives which is patently unfair of me to put them in that situation.
You know what, they probably have thought of that option themselves but maybe doent want to interfere untill you ask them.
I wouldnt want my kids with anyone else but family. and in this country you know you can organise restraining orders to protect your family from her advances.
Good luck with it though.
One thought..can you afford a babysitter to help out? Like an older woman. She can look agter them in your own home (wherever that may be in the near future)
I have a friend that managed by offerring free accomodation to a really nice woman.
Good luck Empty