I'm sorry. x
How far is this ranch? Can you not pick her up?
It's an hour away, and we don't know exactly where it is.
I am seriously thinking about having a "come to Jesus" talk with DSD and just flat out ask her if this is what she wants her life to be like--to move away from her school friends, etc. and let her know we cannot do anything about it unless she says so. And then let her know she loses the right to complain about the consequences if she chooses this path because this is HER choice.
Her BPD mom may have convinced her of horrid things about DH by now, but I would hope that by 15 she could start realizing that they may not be true.