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« on: August 20, 2012, 01:31:16 AM »
Well.


According to my GF i have gotten old and weird with strange opinions and behaviour lately. And i obviously also consider myself as an f***** knight in a f****** white armor that need to get down from f****** white horse and get a grip.

Thats what i have been told...

These boards must have ruined me  wink

Just sharing.


Andy

P.s any other white knights here?
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« Reply #1 on: August 20, 2012, 06:10:15 AM »
Andy. Count me as a knight in shining armor   Except I was telling her that I was not one  grin
I blame Walt Disney for all our problems lol
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« Reply #2 on: August 20, 2012, 06:14:50 AM »
Quote from: desperate dutchman on August 20, 2012, 06:10:15 AM
Andy. Count me as a knight in shining armor   Except I was telling her that I was not one  grin
I blame Walt Disney for all our problems lol
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Hey dutch.

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I blame Walt Disney for all our problems

Should never been invented wink



Also tried to tell her that im not and never said i was.

But according to her i think and belive i am one... She like telling me what i feel and think  wink

Im glad i have her around to tell me that  cool

Andy

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Oh... my post number 333  smiley
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« Reply #3 on: August 20, 2012, 06:51:36 AM »
Hey Andy - you are taking things pretty well these days and rolling with the flow without it getting you upset!

 Doing the right thing

That new Apple - boundary - TV must be putting you in a good mood.

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« Reply #4 on: August 20, 2012, 08:41:00 AM »
Quote from: yeeter on August 20, 2012, 06:51:36 AM
Hey Andy - you are taking things pretty well these days and rolling with the flow without it getting you upset!

 Doing the right thing

That new Apple - boundary - TV must be putting you in a good mood.

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I have my ups and downs, but things are better then in a long while smiley I let go much easier now. And im letting myself be the judge of who i am. Namecalling has become a no no... im outta there if that happens. She might not like it... but i dont like beeing sweared at either smiley


Apple - boundary - TV = awesome.  Doing the right thing  My choice - she didnt like it... but then again. She does so much i dont like anyway  rolleyes


Also have to say... she like it now that we have it, hehe!


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« Reply #5 on: August 20, 2012, 09:28:49 AM »
Yep, Andy, the boards have just ruined you!   grin

You are responding to her differently and she sees he control slipping away.  Doesn't like the boundaries you have set, etc. 
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« Reply #6 on: August 21, 2012, 09:27:11 AM »
Quote from: catnap on August 20, 2012, 09:28:49 AM
Yep, Andy, the boards have just ruined you!   grin

You are responding to her differently and she sees he control slipping away.  Doesn't like the boundaries you have set, etc. 

Nope.. she sure dont like them. But it have done it easier on a day to day basis. She also seem more hesistant to pick fights with me.

Maybe since its not so easy for her to rile me up as it used to be.


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