I have a lot of insecurities when it comes to other people. This might seem weird but I trust no one. People back stab on another, lie, deceit, hurt... . I know there are really good people out there but I basically trust no one. That's one of my biggest problems. That doesn´t make me bitter, I'm quite a
happy person but inside I'm just like this suspicious thing.
Soo I fell in love with a BPD. That's... . nice. (God has a really wicked sense of humor)
I know he lies about little things. He opens up about them later and we work things out. Until this day it was all minor stuff. So I'm waiting for the really big lie. I don't even know if it's coming but that's just my way of thinking. (wrong I know)
I don't usually do this kind of stuff but my mind had been playing tricks on me and so it just hapend.
His phone was charging in my nightstand.
I clicked to see his texts and phone calls. (I know it's wrong... . I never do this kinda stuff)
One of the last calls was a woman.
I started to feel my mind boiling but kept it somewhat cool.
Me: Who's Andrea?
Him: Who?
Me: Andrea.
Him: A friend of mine. She's a friend of my cousin actually. Why?
Me: She called you.
Him: So?
Me: You didn't tell me.
Him: If this was a guy, would you ask me the same question? Am I suppose to delete all my female friendships... . and keep only the men?
Me: No, not at all.
Him: You are putting me in a hard situation. I have friends. Female and Male. You have to trust me and realize that that is ok. You have male friends too. I trust you. You have to trust me too. I understand that we both have some jealousy issues, we have both been hurt before, but now it's you and me. We have to work on our trust issues.
Me: (thinking:
Oh my God... . I'm the BPD now) Sorry, I shouldn't have gone trough your phone.
Him: It's ok. I understand.
Mind. Blown.
He was the sane one. I was the paranoid one.