a BPB posted here with permission - looking for the link

[Fanie]

Can somebody help please

I saw a thread or something here on the boards where a BPD were allowed

to post his / her opinions here with us

Can someone please help me with that link

I started reading a week or so ago, and cant find it again 

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[an0ught]

Hi Fanie,

there have been a few pwBPD that have been posting on this board. These have been mainly partners of pwBPD themselves and were restricted to posting from their own NON perspective. These restrictions  are in place to avoid triggering - the communities are prone to do that to each other.

A few high profile members that were allowed to post from the BPD POV primarily in the workshops. The main visible one that springs to my mind was "oceanheart". A quick way to find a few of them is to use the "bing" search box in the top left on your page.

[Fanie]

Thank you !

Found what I was looking for

[Stalwart]

Fanie you seem to want to learn more from the perspective of an actual borderline and in reading some of your articles, questions and comments I think I may be able to help you with that.

There is a really good site a girl with borderline produces. Best perspectives I've come across.

Here's a link to one article in particular I saw you interested in. Remember to followup on Article 2 at the bottom as well. It gets better.

Hope you enjoy it. There is a wealth of info from their perspective on this site.

www.downwardspiralintothevortex.com/2012/02/i-never-saw-it-coming-vanishing-act.html