I split from my exgf about 2 months ago and Im starting to worry how to handle it if she try's to recycle me.
We have a son together who is nearly 14 months old and I want to not spoil any chance I have of seeing him.
I have no intention of getting back with her but need to be able to handle it in a way that doesn't paint me black.
I am as certain as any of us can be that she has BPD. She is undiagnosed but she ticks nearly all be boxes and the stories on here could have been written about our relationship.
I also realise that she has cheated on me. I have no evidence but she gave one of those dressed up confessions that was put across as a question and other circumstances all point towards it.
Now what do I say if she asks why I wont get back together with her?
I don't want to lie but I obviously cant turn around and say " Its because youre a lying cheated
&%$@ who has a personality disorder".
I feel that anything I say will blow up in my face.
I may be worrying over nothing and she could already be seeing someone but I'd rather be prepared if she does ask me.
Thanks