This is actually very good news
We all know that BPD's don't readily want to go for T
and T is not necessarily going to help them
Sunshine & Formflier - PLEASE do elaborate
Share that 20 years experience ... .
For me it was all about "responding appropriately"
Validating instead of invalidating (still working on this)
Boundaries was the biggest thing. I was able to reclaim parts of my life (passwords for email and such) that had been trampled on and were a source of verbal abuse for me.
Note of warning/awareness: My uBPDw (and I think most) will realize they are loosing some control and will try to clamp down (that is the extinction burst)... .that will suck but when you get through it things will be better.
So it may look like a couple steps forward and 1 step back.
or two forward... .three back... .two forward.
Having that straight in your head will help you get through it.
Hang in there