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willy45
Formerly "johnnyorganic", "rjh45", "SurferDude"
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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« on: July 24, 2014, 11:59:09 PM »

Blarg. Some of you may have followed my story. 2 years broken up. Talked to her three months ago. Emailed to tell her for the thousandth time to stop contacting me. She emailed back to say 'no', she wasn't going to stop. She emailed a bunch. I have ignored. Sends a LinkedIn request a few weeks ago. I ignored. Got two calls in two days. First call, no message. Second call a message about how she has been thinking about me a lot and would like me to call ' if I'm so inclined'. Both calls from 'unkown' number... .I was hoping the first call with no message was a wrong number, even though I knew... .

Goodness gracious. I hate this so much.
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Aussie JJ
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Relationship status: apart 18 months, 12 months push pull 6 months seperated properly, 4 months k own about BPD
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« Reply #1 on: July 25, 2014, 03:55:49 AM »

Tell her you have moved on and the relationship with her has changed so much of your perspective on life.  

Say you have to be true to yourself as you have done a lot of work since you seperated and after analzing everything with profesional help you realised that you were gay.  

Your sorry bit the sex with her was so discusting and unsatisfying that you cant go back to that hole ever again.  

Let her know at that point that if she grows a beard and talks with a deep voice their could be a future however it will be all brown hole glory. 

Then ask?  Is this ok, I hope so!
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Aussie JJ
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Relationship status: apart 18 months, 12 months push pull 6 months seperated properly, 4 months k own about BPD
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« Reply #2 on: July 25, 2014, 06:07:53 AM »

I suspect from the silence that people agree with this strategy... .

Be prepared for the distortion campaign
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willy45
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« Reply #3 on: July 25, 2014, 08:20:50 AM »

Ha ha. I will assume as well from the silence that this is the wisest course of action and will take these necessary steps. Thank you for the insights. I will share my findings once implemented.
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