sassy67, where are things heading for you, now? Is your boyfriend still in jail? Is he still contacting you (I've actually read your other posts on other Boards)? Have you decided to detach from him and try to move on? Or are you trying to decide which way to go? Or are you posting this here because you want to make it work?
This Board is for members who are trying to stay in their relationships, and to support each other in that endeavor. If you are certain you want to detach from this relationship, and are needing help for that, this is the Board that would be most beneficial to you:
Leaving: Disengaging from a Partner with BPD. If you are confused and trying to decide what to do, try posting and reading over here:
Undecided Board: Staying or Leaving. While on either or both of those Boards, please remember to check out each of the
links to the right-hand side of those pages. The information will prove invaluable to you in your quest for answers... .I wish you all the best, sassy67
