Re: sexpectations, sexperiments and submissive (18+)

[camuse]

Mine became obsessed with BDSM, to the point where I refused to participate as it had become unhealthy. She was very unhappy with this and made me feel very guilty, saying it was unfair now to take it away from her. I don't know really what the significance of this was, but what started as a bit of mild fun seemed to turn into something quite dark, which I was not at all comfortable with - she wanted to be hurt, degraded, humiliated, and 'normal' sex became boring to her. I was unable to bring myself to do what she requested, and she made me feel very guilty about it.

[PLEASE - NO RUN MESSAGES]

PLEASE - NO RUN MESSAGES This is a high level discussion board for solving ongoing, day-to-day relationship conflicts. Members may appear frustrated but they are here for constructive solutions to problems. This is not a place for relationship "stay" or "leave" discussions. Please read the specific guidelines for this group.