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Author Topic: Well wife seems to be having another affair  (Read 356 times)
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« on: September 02, 2014, 02:54:58 PM »

Saw a whatsapp msg from a guy calling her princess.

Tired of all this BS.

I tired to make it better.  But it just gets worse.  10 years and it all has been bad.

Time for me to move on.

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« Reply #1 on: September 02, 2014, 03:01:10 PM »

So sorry to hear
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« Reply #2 on: September 02, 2014, 03:02:48 PM »

that's horrible lonelyh, i'm so sorry
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« Reply #3 on: September 02, 2014, 04:26:34 PM »

Sorry to hear it.  Good luck.
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« Reply #4 on: September 02, 2014, 05:08:07 PM »

Sorry, lonelyh.  The infidelity has been the most hurtful behavior my dBPDh has had.
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« Reply #5 on: September 04, 2014, 07:37:54 AM »

I hope it's not innocent and you have your wires crossed?... .I don't know what was in the body of the message.

If the context is intimate... .then that is deal breaker stuff.

If it has happened in the past and you have been given assurances then that is just rotten.

I know this sort of stuff is typical BPD but that doesn't make it any easier.

Stay well... .whatever you decide to do.
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