15000th new topic on staying board. Grateful to BPDfam

[Moselle]

OK I know that's a shocker of a thread title, but it highlighted to me the role that bpdfamily has been to me.

15000 threads by people just like me, new to BPD, lost, distressed, grappling with staying or leaving decisions.

So I'd like to thank all those behind the scenes, who author all the content, and moderate the boards, as well as all the anonymous friends who have reached out to me, in the 7 months I have been here.

PS I still don't know whether I'm staying with or leaving my spouse, but I'll definitely be staying on BPDfam  

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[lemon flower]

well said Moselle!

thumbs up for everyone who made and makes bpdfamily happen everyday 

[waverider]

Thats only the staying board which is still only a small part of the site.

It is certainly rewarding to be part of this fabulous resource.

I am sure it has not only saved the sanity of many people but also indirectly literally saved a few lives given some of the unfortunate and often too common sad end results this disorder can bring to those affected.

Everyone who contributes here deserves a pat on the back for their part in this.

The greatest tool for healing ourselves is to help in the healing of others.

[Bear60]

I agree totally, thank you everyone, it has been a light both now and 12 yrs ago when I was here.