Interesting quote by wave rider:

[Flora73]

Interesting quote by wave rider:

You have to start living true to yourself and let her bond with you rather than you trying to bond with her. Otherwise she uses the threat of breaking that bond to validate herself.

So in a nutshell which I'm uncomfortable do we treat mean to keep them keen?

Or is a better take, emotionally detach & let them do most of the work?

Opinions?

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