How do you deal with the hurt and pain?how do you accept it?how do you let it go and not devastate you?is there any advice you can give me?i love him and I am really hurt at the moment... I don't want to lose him and my fear is destroying me.
Thank you for understanding and sorry for the rambling I m having a really bad day.
Oh Kasina , you don't have to say sorry for having a bad day. We all have those. Please take care of yourself and let us know how you are doing, okey?
I wish I had a good advice, but I don't. Some days I handle these situations better, sometimes i crumble. Those days... .Wwell I eat too much chocolate. I go to the woods for a walk and cry alone. I'd go jogging in the woods if could.
I try accept the feelings as they come, but not allow them dictate what i do, if you can understand. Sometimes it is very difficult and yeas i've gotten blinded with feelings of rejections and shouted at him, refused to listen what he has to say... .Doesn't really help .
Previously I've also written my thoughts and feelings to him, but I think it is usually not recommended here.
His relationship to his ex. Knowing my SO is a person with huge difficulties trusting someone i feel it is good that he keeps some of the few he is ever gotten attached close, even if their relationship is a bit weird and not always 'just friends'. The ex is also quite unstable and vulnerable (like in your bf's), and as far as i know wants him back... .So I wouldn't be surprised if he falls back on to her one day.