Months of relative peace, then boom.

[mssalty]

SO and I had a disagreement last night.  While trying to resolve it, SO started attacking me.  I left the situation.  Slept on it, woke up and SO wanted to point out why I was wrong.   I tried to talk to SO and SO took everything I said as criticism.   SO walked out on me explaining everything I was to do to make this right and painting me black.   

I'd forgotten what this was like.   I feel angry, sad, frustrated, hopeless, and like things are impossible again.   

Honestly, I thought for awhile there I was being harsh thinking SO had BPD.  Now I see the symptoms in spades again. 

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[Rockylove]

 :'(  sorry that happened.  It happens here too, but it has gotten better.  The bad times are fewer and farther between.  Keep up your end and stay true to you... .you can't lose that way.

[Cat21]

I'm sorry, mssalty. I know the feeling. It sounds like you did the right thing. It's so difficult when things are on the upturn and then all of the sudden, you feel like you're catapulted back to the starting line. I can relate 100%.