David, it is wonderful to know you were a positive presence in the boys lives. The non parent/SO/other who provides a validating and positive and safe haven is so vital. Obviously, I am biased, but I think, in this particular matter, it is right. I take every opportunity I can to speak out about it to those who ask and to those who are so obviously trying to do right by the child.
It is an incredibly difficult role, but so very vital.
Well done David! I have had a few people who were able to help me along the way. I wish they were still here so I could thank them. The next best thing I can do is try to be a voice for those kids who are caught up in the chaos and to support those parents/caregivers/SOs who want to help.