Ive read a lot about validating my dBPDw but how do I deal with myself? My wife used to show tons of affection and tell me I look good in those jeans and reciprocate things sexually but I feel like I'm on a one way street of giving and no getting. I dont think this is something I can talk to her about right now and by no means have I thought about going outside our marriage but this is starting to take its toll on me
What would happen if you were more obvious about complimenting her for a week or so. See if she picks up the ball in return.
If she doesn't... .what would happen if you asked her to "up the level" of her affection and compliments towards you?