Why did my incarceration makes things so bad?

[Bbuilder]

Hi, I would like to address a great question asked in a reply to my post, it was asked of me if my incarceration is related to her behavior in any way... .absolutely it is !

Please do not get me wrong she displayed all the earmarks of being BPD when we got married , but, her condition got markedly worse after I was incarcerated... .much worse... .my brother went by my house to kep her company & he would tell me that was missed me so much & loved me so much that she would cry all the time... she is extremely hypersensitive !

My brother often intimated that he wished he had someone who loved him the same intensity that she loves me ... .!

There was a particular incident that I believe was a catalyst in her really going over the edge... so, yes in response to your question, there is no doubt in my mind that my going to prison definitely made her behavior become much worse... .

I am seeking input & help from anyone ... .please hear my cries ! Do not forsake me !

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[formflier]

 

Have you read the lessons?  Look to the right of the screen... .that is a good place to build on your education.

Are you incarcerated right now?

Can you explain how her BPD relates to your incarceration?  I may have misread that... or misunderstood... .please forgive me if I did.

I'll check back later... .hang in there!

[formflier]

 

Can you go ahead and "take" this profile as your own?  Just be clear that you are posting on behalf of your brother... .

When he is able to get his own access... .he can get his own logon.

Will that work?

[Bbuilder]

Can you go ahead and "take" this profile as your own?  Just be clear that you are posting on behalf of your brother... .

When he is able to get his own access... .he can get his own logon.

Will that work?

That'll work just fine. Thank you.