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Author Topic: How did your pwBPD react to a new pregnancy?  (Read 375 times)
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« on: February 09, 2015, 12:25:19 PM »

DH and I recently found out we are pregnant. We haven't told SD10 yet because we aren't out of the "danger zone". We know once SD10 finds out then her uBPDbm will find out.

I was just wondering for any of you who have had kids after a separation with a pwBPD, how did they react?
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« Reply #1 on: February 09, 2015, 12:39:45 PM »

She got pregnant.

Her mum said she didnt take the news well.
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« Reply #2 on: February 11, 2015, 12:55:55 PM »

I don't expect uBPDbm to take the news well either. A few months into our engagement she gifted us with several DV accusations, sexual abuse accusations, drug use accusations. I don't want stress like that again while trying to create a human.
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