Hi thanks for responding and sending those links, they will be helpful. However I'm so deeply hurt and far gone into this relationship and she seems not to notice her disorder I doubt I can do this right. I haven't gone NC but she went silent treatment on me for 6 months. I want to send you a personal message and show you what she wrote to me in a letter. I want to send it to you in a personal message because this letter is not for public of course, actually only meant for me but I need help with this so I want to do it this way, is that ok?
Sorry for responding this late, I was an actually still am sick because of this for days.
If anyone else is willing to give me good advise on how to respond (I love her and just want compassion from her for me for what she does to me), is so welcome I need it, thank you, I'm so heartbroken... .
Sure!