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« on: February 15, 2015, 03:10:55 PM »

Hi everyone , I am a 21 year old girl from Europe

and it´s been 4 months that i am in a relationship with a BPD 28 year old guy .

In fact he is not a diagnosed BPD , but after a series of dramas, I put myself into researching until a friend of mine introduced me to BPD . I have read every article and book on the Internet about BPD and I found my boyfriend in every word of it .

After 4 months with this guy i have come to a point i'm going crazy , i cant even recognize myself , i lost my passions , my friends and my freedom .


im glad i found this site , and i hope it can help me to a solution ... .i will post my story after this !

thank u so much !

now i know im not alone

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« Reply #1 on: February 15, 2015, 03:23:35 PM »

Hi IMgoingCRAZY, 

Welcome aboard. You are not alone.  There are many of us here experiencing and coping with similar situations. 

I am sorry that you are going through this.  I understand how frustrating and difficult it is to cope with the behavior of a person with BPD (pwBPD).   

In the past, I have thought the same thing as your forum name and lost a piece of myself. I felt hopeless until I realized that there are things to improve myself and my relationship. The motto on the staying board is "before you can make anything better, you must stop making it worse."  The tools on this board are designed for improving our relationships and ourselves.  Take a look at the lessons on the right. 

Sharing your story is a step in the right direction.   Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)

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