I guess it's a trust issue, Waverider. He trusts no one but he's the one that can't be trusted! I've done nothing wrong. I'm stressed to the max. I don't get out of pajamas for days. I take care of everything and he's going to treat me like this? Argh! His friend offered to get some time off and keep him for a few days. I'm all about that! I would dump him off on anyone who could keep up with his dumb a## right now!
Is the trust issue a form of projection?
Sounds like you need break as your patience is running dry. I get much the same way when dealing with specific ailments. I got like this when we went through breast cancer... Genuine reason, but milked to the point I struggled with it. It is hard not to feel guilty at those times.