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« on: February 18, 2015, 05:45:16 AM »

Hi,

Just a quick intro, I am married to a lovely lady who travels with BPD.  Life is not as i expected and I am not sure that I cope very well.  I am here to learn about ways to love her better and to be a survivor.

Peter

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« Reply #1 on: February 18, 2015, 06:09:54 AM »

Welcome back, Peter.

Is this the same women as before?  What has been going on in the relationship?
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« Reply #2 on: February 18, 2015, 08:58:08 AM »

Hi Peter,

Having a spouse with BPDH can be a challenge, as you well know.  Welcome We understand.

Please read the Lessons on the right side of this page and keep posting and tell us more about your story.

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« Reply #3 on: February 18, 2015, 01:57:57 PM »

hello!  Welcome

I'm sorry you are having some issues coping. Please tell us anything you want to share to see if we can help Smiling (click to insert in post)
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