I'm in a relationship with a a BPD

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My girlfriend is incredible. She is sexy, funny, smart – everything you could want. She loves my friends, they love her. Perfect.

But sometimes I get worried that I will lose her. Why? Not because of any normal, irrational student related relationship drama.

I'm not sure how to deal with her at this point. Should I tell her I think she has BPD?

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Welcome to this very supportive family, JacksonFrank!  Nothing that you presented indicates that she has BPD.  More information by you would allow for more insights/advice.  What makes you think that she has BPD?