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I'm recently married.  My wife has BPD and I'm pretty sure I'm doing all I can to enable it/her behavior.  I just want to figure out how to deal with the BPD in her while loving her at the same time.

[walkingoneggs]

I'm recently married.  My wife has BPD and I'm pretty sure I'm doing all I can to enable it/her behavior.  I just want to figure out how to deal with the BPD in her while loving her at the same time.

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[vortex of confusion]

 



How long have you been married? Recent is a relative term as there are people here that have been dealing with this for lots of years, which means that there are a lot of people here that can help you try to navigate your way through this. It isn't easy.

One of the best places to start is with the lessons on the side of the page. Here is the direct link: https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=56206

What kinds of struggles are you having that are specific to your relationship? As you read and identify areas that you want to work on or navigate, you can post and get input from others.

[Cat Familiar]

 

It's definitely a challenge dealing with a person with BPD, but the lessons can help a lot. They've helped me create a much more harmonious home life. Please tell us more about your situation and the kinds of behaviors that are troubling.