Hello, Infern0 I am sorry you are going through this. It certainly hurts when it feels like they are pulling away, and I understand your fears.
Can you tell us a bit more? Has she gotten silent when she has been stressed in the past that didn't lead to a breakup? Can you give us an example of her vanishing mid-conversation? If you feel like talking about it, how many times have you guys broken up? What were the reasons?
If ask any question you don't want to answer, it's ok to tell me to stuff it
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We only broke up once and it was because she became very withdrawn and seemed disinterested. I tried reaching out a lot but it didn't help. Eventually I got upset and angry and we argued a lot and ended it. Not long after that she got with my replacement.
A little while after that we started talking again and were friends but she always said she regretted what happened and still loved me.
She broke up with the replacement so we could have another chance but he wants her back and has been perusing pretty hard. I'm just concerned because this guy has serious issues of his own and is obsessed with her but I guess because they are both very damaged they have this weird connection.
I just worry that she will go back to him and I feel a bit like she's trying to push me away. This could be just paranoia But I feel like it's wise to be guarded considering her history.
I just wish she could be more open and honest. If she is going back to him then that's officially it for me and her I will be done 100% this time.