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« on: March 19, 2015, 09:01:11 PM »

Argh I'm frustrated lately.  uBPDh is on a "painting me black" phase. 

I've been here quite some time but I don't know if I've mentioned that my boss has some mood disorder (diagnosed, on medication, not sure what she has but maybe Bipolar).  I've been working for her for the 5th year now, and lately she's on a moody phase as well (sometimes she's better.  Lately she's getting irritated every day).

So bascially my 8 hours at work is facing a moody boss, and the rest of the time at home I'm facing a moody H.  Both are constantly conveying the message "I don't have high expectations of you but you can't meet even my low expectations.  What's wrong with you?"  It's like I can't get away with it and even though I don't want to believe that it's my problem, I kind of think it's by problem because I'm told this all the time.

What do you guys do to feel more positive about yourself?
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« Reply #1 on: March 19, 2015, 11:19:06 PM »

   

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« Reply #2 on: March 19, 2015, 11:23:10 PM »

You know what, ever since I got married to uBPDh, I really treasure my lunch time at work.  It's one time I can truly be on my own, do whatever I want without anybody judging.  But one hour of me-time wrapped up in 10+ hours of negative time sometimes can't totally help... .
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