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« on: March 23, 2015, 04:13:16 PM »

Leaving shortly to take the kids to PSR (church class) and thanking God I have somewhere to go.

Wife came home from a visit to her parents yesterday in a bad mood. Upset this AM, did not go to work (again), sent me text stating she hates how she treats me, hates her anger, and thinks my whole family is against her (a recurring theme).

I came home early to work from home office only to be attacked over and over and over. She is doing everything she can to pick a fight, and the longer I go without taking the bait and the nicer I am, the harder she tries. It is as if there are two or three people in there, and I do not know which one will show up next: sad, sorry, or angry. She has started this maniacal laughing between crying and yelling. Honestly hope she goes over the edge tonight so I can have her admitted. Really worried about her.

   
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« Reply #1 on: March 23, 2015, 04:39:32 PM »

Leaving shortly to take the kids to PSR (church class) and thanking God I have somewhere to go.

Wife came home from a visit to her parents yesterday in a bad mood. Upset this AM, did not go to work (again), sent me text stating she hates how she treats me, hates her anger, and thinks my whole family is against her (a recurring theme).

I came home early to work from home office only to be attacked over and over and over. She is doing everything she can to pick a fight, and the longer I go without taking the bait and the nicer I am, the harder she tries. It is as if there are two or three people in there, and I do not know which one will show up next: sad, sorry, or angry. She has started this maniacal laughing between crying and yelling. Honestly hope she goes over the edge tonight so I can have her admitted. Really worried about her.

Admitted voluntarily by her, or admitted by external assessment?  I only ask because if it is voluntary by her it would seem that sooner rather than later would be more likely.  If she goes down the road that far she will not likely go willingly. 
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« Reply #2 on: March 23, 2015, 07:57:09 PM »

Admitted voluntarily by her, or admitted by external assessment?  I only ask because if it is voluntary by her it would seem that sooner rather than later would be more likely.  If she goes down the road that far she will not likely go willingly. 

She knows she is out of control, but cannot stop it. We have been down the partial hospitalization path before, I think she will want me to take her if this continues. Asleep now, we will see what morning brings.

Frustrating part is she has been quite stable and even very self aware of her issues the last few weeks, then suddenly off the deep end. BPD and rapid cycling bipolar 2- quite the combination. Feel helpless that I cannot do anything for her.
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